GD and Kiko, Taeyeon and Baekhyun ...

I'm not going to go a long rant here, but I just want to say, simply, that fans should support their idols rather than trying to control them. It pains me every time I read another post either here or elsewhere online with people hating (and I mean really hating) on the person with whom that idol chose to be in a relationship. I'm not much of a shipper, but I like writing about certain couples because I feel they have chemistry together (like G-Dragon with Dara). But this is merely my perception of them. I wouldn't be angry if I found out that they announced a relationship with someone who didn't fit my ideal type for them, because that is my ideal, not theirs. The only thing that matters is that they are happy. I don't know much about Kiko, but if she makes G-Dragon happy, then I'm happy for both of them. Same goes for Taeyeon and Baekhyun. Why must they apologize for falling in love with each other? They are all human, just like us. As fans, you should support their happiness. It's as simple as that. 

 

 

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DevPark
#1
Completely agree ^^
They're human, they have feelings, so why can't they date?
Simple.
:p
capricake #2
I agree with your opinion. We tend to get jealous and look for negative points in the person they choose but let's get real. We can only dream...
lalita25 #3
I read it somewhere that the reason why some fans hate baekyeon is not because they hate the fact that they date, but more because they feel tricked. Like, baekhyun said that he wanted to date at 30 or smthg but then he is with taeyeon and when yoona/sooyoung/fany was revealed dating someone, taeyeon acted like they were careless and she's the victim.
I dont really know the situation because im not a fan but i think that reason kinda makes sense.
I myself support baekyeon, like who won't? Just imagine their child's voice....
And about jiko, i think some fans already accepted that they're dating. And kiko is such a sweetheart just like dara. It's just the fact that she's a model and dara is a kpop singer, kiko doesn't have to maintain good image like what dara does that's why she seems wild and all. I'm not saying that dara isn't nice, but i believe we dont really know the real dara, kpop is all about good image.
Lol, i said too much, sorry :p
4youwithlove122
#4
Well tbh while fans shouldn't be possessive of their idols, I'm sure some of them would kinda feel like 'No~~ My bias has a girlfriend /sobs/"
I WAS like that,I just CANT imagine my bias(es) with a girlfriend,but if they confirm that they do,then I will be happy for them because honestly,everyone should have the right to date.Like Minho or Donghae for example,they are one of my biases,but I think that at their age,they should be dating,and maybe even engaged (like Donghae or Leeteuk should) by then.Tbh,Kiko seems decent but I think she's a bit weird (like GD lol).However,Baekhyun and Taeyeon are cute as hell :3
pinaywriter
#5
But honestly, I think they match well. For a lot more reasons than shippers can bear to understand.
pinaywriter
#6
I support BaekYeon. But JiKo? I can't not because I like Dara but because I dunno if she is good for him. ^^ But WGAF I support TOPBOM all the way. ^^ Kidding. GD has weird taste in fashion and in women. I only like him because of his composing skills. ^^
riotanitnot #7
Agree!!!!! I honestly dont understand why baekhyun and taeyeom appologize. Its not like they commit crimes for dating. Lol
MaiTusKris
#8
Amen! Plus, these couples matches each other well.
coal3sc3
#9
Completely agree! Fans should start to actually treat idols as human because they have their own feelings and for Taeyeon and Baekhyun's case, I don't think it's their fault that they fell for each other. It's what written on their fate and fans should accept it the way it is. I'm not a fan of both but I felt so bad for them that they have to apologize to the fans because of it. It's like the fans are controlling their entire life. Sigh. :'(
amyrazyla #10
More than 100% I agreed with this. Well, their have their own life and they need to be happy with the person who makes them happy. Whoever it is, I always support them :'D
pandaseyo14
#11
yes! i agree with you. i totally will support GD&KIKO no matter what.. but, my heart was not ready yet for to know that they are into relationship and maybe all of them (fans who hate this). but, i will try my best fr them! ^^
monodramatic #12
I completely agree with you. Fans must be glad that their idols are allowing them to know their private lives, especially their love lives. ^^
ezbaby #13
so true...fans are supposed to be supportive,not obsessively controlling. and they're big girls and boys.not kids,so its like,totally natural to be dating. as long as they're performing well,what's the big deal?
66RyshMeii
#14
Yeah.
They have their life to live to the fullest.
Its their choices to make.
And I still dont get why 'dating' is a 'scandal'.
I mean, why restrict idols from living their life and happiness while you are dating while being a fan and tell them not to.
So it becomes as if if you are idol = no dating. If you are a fan = okay to date. Because idols arent going to come and tell their fans "hey, you are my fan, you can't date and dream about another person other than us."
Seriously, people need to let others breath, have fun and give them a chance to make their own family for their future.
And it's a common to date people who are always together working doing what you do. So it's normal for a doctor to marry a doctor/nurse. A teacher to marry a teacher. A student dating another student. A singer/actor marrying another actor/singer or something similar to their profession.
No, I'm not saying this is how it always is. But that this happens quite frequently.
So it's normal for idols to date another if they are always working together, knowing each other for a long time and developing feeling for each other later.
Since that's how the human mind works.
That's how the world works.
I can't understand why some people can't understand this. Or more like be ignorant to this.
Oh come on, be rational for once and learn to accept things.
Gingerz #15
I completely agree!!!!