KHJ....My take on this.

I read Seamusmommy blog post last night and I was ecstatic, I felt so happy that I had to make an update even though I had ruled the possibility out last night. Then I woke up this morning and found her next blogpost, I read and I was upset, then I clicked on the link she dropped.

Now following the link, I found out some things. I read his apology letter and I saw many comments that has been dropped. Although some of the comments are too vulgar I really won't say anything about it because everyone should have a right to their opinion.

To start with, as a girl, I can never let anyone hit me, let alone continuously. My parents don't beat me, no one does why would I allow a guy to do that to me? As a boyfriend/girlfriend and physical abuse is apparent in the relationship as a girl what did you expect after you two get married?

Now some say the girl want money, wants to ruin him and all but I think the question is how much does she really love him? I think this girl is trying to drag things out. She knows fully well that after the charges are dropped he wouldn't date her anymore and did she really want to let him go?

A said she wants an apology, he did it and now they are still debating if the apology is sincere or not.

Why is it that some women are so stupid that they stay with a guy who hit them continuously? If he hit her as she had claimed, shouldn't she have break things off before now? Did she have to report him when he wasn't around to defend himself?

Think about this, this girl herself might not want to press charges but what about her friends? We know how we girls can be when it comes to things like this. Sue him, he deserves it, things like that.

HJ might want to break up with this girl and she might not want it, what better time is it to reveal his crimes?

Now HJ has apologized and I pray they will drop the charges. We all sin and God forgives us, we should forgive others that wrong us also.

Also, I must add the fact that South Korean have a problem when it comes to idols. They are quick to judge and out when any issue arises (no harm meant). Imagine if it had been a random guy, people will read the news, make their comments and drop it, but being a superstar haters arises.

Some are even saying he is manipulating the lady because of his wealth and status. I know he would have learnt a lesson by this and I really will advise him to lay off dating for the time being and also to know the kind of girl he would date next.

I will appreciate it if people should let their idols life remain personal and private. No one is perfect and we all have our flaws, but everyone deserves a second chance. If God is not giving us second chances the world would have come to an end.

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kimsojn #1
I agree with u !!!!! She is such a she wants khj down falll !!!! If dhe loved him she would do this
Ohhani2
#2
Just seeing this now..............i really didn't follow up with HJ's domestic violence scandal coz i didn't want to over-react or see those hateful comments.........but d gal should go to hell! Just the thought of her makes me annoyed She's such a b**ch.......she has officially made her way into my HATE list!....... I just want them to drop the stupid CASE..
biniben #3
she must have received the money transfer in the morning
Shain44
#4
Wow! After all she has done to ruin his good name and let the media destroy him,her lawyers say "she does not want to ruin him,so that is why she wants that sincere apology! That sure makes me laugh!
superwholocked23 #5
*clap* *clap* *clap* I couldn't have said it better myself
biniben #6
it is so like him to want to take all the blame,just like in 2010 when ss501 left the agency.the apology shows his a real man to know he made a "provoked" mistake and is sorry for it.he just wants to move on,
Flexujks
#7
I couldnp agree more!
riamiko #8
nice post
and i agree
seamusmommy #9
Totally agree with you. How can he be manipulating her, when she holds his life in her hands, so to speak? This is not some serial or abuser with a history of it. He made 1 mistake and the media have to turned it into some sort of crusade/public lynching. 'Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us' Yes he should have walked away instead of letting himself give in to his emotions, but she also should have walked away. Put a restraining order or something, if he had beet her so severely that first time in May and continued to do so through July. I just want this whole thing to end already. He's paid for his sins, but she hasn't.
Shain44
#10
I read from another site that the Woman's lawyer said that they may further have a "private settlement" ...you can imagine what that is,right?I also read that there is an association which controls the Entertainment industry in Korea..and they can ban any star if they see fit! I don't know if it is reliable,but i saw some one comment about this..that person says PSH was banned for 2 years,which why he can not work in Korea yet! Is that why HJ did this? Apologize with out dragging the case to weeks and weeks of more drama and mud slinging and conflict? His family , friends ,his business as well as KE are also suffering because of this issue! Not to leave out his fans,of course! May be after much thought he came up with this solution??
angee818
#11
I agree with u
sshineexo501 #12
Yeah you are right, no man is perfects and everyone has their own flaws... KHJ did a mistake and he apologized for it publicly... And if he did hit her continuously, she should have left in the first....
I'm a girl and until now no one, not even my parents have hit me and letting a guy hit me is too much... I would have or any girl would have left the guy in the first place.... but I know that I would have forgiven him and never got back together with him again....

KHJ should learn from this and the next time he gets into a relationship, he should be careful in selecting the girl..... I hope everything goes back to normal and the girl drop her charges..