I read Seamusmommy blog post last night and I was ecstatic, I felt so happy that I had to make an update even though I had ruled the possibility out last night. Then I woke up this morning and found her next blogpost, I read and I was upset, then I clicked on the link she dropped.

Now following the link, I found out some things. I read his apology letter and I saw many comments that has been dropped. Although some of the comments are too vulgar I really won't say anything about it because everyone should have a right to their opinion.

To start with, as a girl, I can never let anyone hit me, let alone continuously. My parents don't beat me, no one does why would I allow a guy to do that to me? As a boyfriend/girlfriend and physical abuse is apparent in the relationship as a girl what did you expect after you two get married?

Now some say the girl want money, wants to ruin him and all but I think the question is how much does she really love him? I think this girl is trying to drag things out. She knows fully well that after the charges are dropped he wouldn't date her anymore and did she really want to let him go?

A said she wants an apology, he did it and now they are still debating if the apology is sincere or not.

Why is it that some women are so stupid that they stay with a guy who hit them continuously? If he hit her as she had claimed, shouldn't she have break things off before now? Did she have to report him when he wasn't around to defend himself?

Think about this, this girl herself might not want to press charges but what about her friends? We know how we girls can be when it comes to things like this. Sue him, he deserves it, things like that.

HJ might want to break up with this girl and she might not want it, what better time is it to reveal his crimes?

Now HJ has apologized and I pray they will drop the charges. We all sin and God forgives us, we should forgive others that wrong us also.

Also, I must add the fact that South Korean have a problem when it comes to idols. They are quick to judge and out when any issue arises (no harm meant). Imagine if it had been a random guy, people will read the news, make their comments and drop it, but being a superstar haters arises.

Some are even saying he is manipulating the lady because of his wealth and status. I know he would have learnt a lesson by this and I really will advise him to lay off dating for the time being and also to know the kind of girl he would date next.

I will appreciate it if people should let their idols life remain personal and private. No one is perfect and we all have our flaws, but everyone deserves a second chance. If God is not giving us second chances the world would have come to an end.