some people just need to learn through hard way..too bad sometime we still need to go through it..or sometimes we just let them go through it..thats how i see my junior..if they dont buy your words of your experience..let them be..as long no other life being hurt/victim, only  their time and their ego..thats the price of pride.  and we learned every second of our life..its a long journey which i wish to accomplish and to conquer with sincerity and lavish with unconditional love..(^O^)