The pathetic person I still am .

Today was the back of school after three monthes of summer .

I got my contact lenses on instad of those nerd glasses , fixed my hair , does some makeup and went out wearing new outfit .

I'm still useless for thinking he'd pay a stare for me .

Unfortunealy he didn't .

All my male classmates complimented me and said I look better without glasses because it reveal my green eyes , but that's not how I feel .

I feel hurt again when I first saw him . Though , I didn't even listen to what my friend said when she talked , I was too busy staring at him .

I can't believe I still love him through all this . Even after three years .

He was looking happy , normal with his own friends . I looked normal too , but more pretty to make him look at me .

We made eye contact three or twice but he didn't even say ' Hi ' to me and it hurts how I still manage to wait for him like a .

In lessons , I looked at him long time . I stared .

I wish I would be a little brave and dare to explain this situation between us . I want to know his true feelings for me . I want him to say ' I want you to go out with me , because I love you ' How pathetic of me .

You guys probably don't know the feeling about wanting to hug him tightly and kiss him . I missed him all summer and that's what I felt to first see him . I felt like crying .

I'm hopeless .

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rorihime #1 Sep 15, 2014 07:04:49

I went through this, too, and to be honest -as hard as it sounds- forget about him. I know how hard it is, but obviously he has returned to his old life, and so should you. He's an for hurting you back then, just because you had fallen for someone else instead of him and probably, he felt like your second choice. But that's life, and if he had honestly and full-heartedly loved you, he wouldn't have treated you like this.
I know, it's easier said than done, but try to move on. Go out with some friends or set up a "group date" with your friends and some boys from your class. It doesn't have to have romance as a goal, just a friendly meet-up. Open up to the other men around you and let them show you that there are still other, much nicer guys out there, who just wait for such a beautiful girl like you to glance at them.

For the free time you spend on your own, put on the clothes you feel most beautiful or confident or maybe even y in, grab your bag and -most importantly- go out! Don't hide inside where no one can see you just because him ignoring you makes you feel worthless. Grab your mp3-player or cellphone and some ear-cabs, put your favourite songs on (I honestly recommend something like "Moya" by AOA or "Is being pretty everything" by Fat Cat! <3) and walk on! If you meet him in town coincidently, even better! If he, perhaps, glances at you, don't get weak- stay strong and probably even act like he doesn't mean anything to you. Realize that he's not some kind of royal and you're a peasant, but you're a princess. Every girl is. Concentrate on window shopping or try on the clothes you wanted to buy and go on with whatever you were doing- he's a guy not even worth your time.

This was written by someone who has also gone through this several times, and finally realized that there are a few good guys out there as well. If you ever feel insecure, just talk to me, I'll try to help you! :)