EunB, RiSe and K-POP as a family

*Long rant. But Ladies' Code are worth it.*

 

This is probably the reason why I never regretted being a part of the KPOP family. When something bad or tragic happens, everyone is there for the people who are greatly affected. Staying strong for each other. I mean yeah, we have fan wars sometimes, we have a lot of misunderstanding but when it comes to times like these, WE ARE A ONE BIG FAMILY. We unite when it's needed. We unite; stand together if something breaks in the KPOP community. In times like this, there are no fandoms. It's one big family.

It's amazing that everyone stands beside the Ladies' Code fans and gives sincere condolences and sends out prayers for the members, families, fans and the greatly affected. A lot of KPOP fans don’t even know who EunB and RiSe are but they are there, caring and giving out sympathy. There's a lot of humanity going around the KPOP family right now, and it gives me hope.

I just saw the Inkigayo tribute and it’s very touching. It’s what the Ladies’ Code fans need at the moment. Comfort. Just lots and lots of comfort because they are going through so much right now.

 

 

When I heard about EunB, I just couldn’t say any right words to say. It’s so heartbreaking because they could have done a lot more. They could have given more songs that would be a tool to save someone, maybe serve as a catharsis, or an escape of the pain they’re going through. Just like how our idols’ music is giving us.

And now, RiSe has lost her battle and I just…

Can you imagine how long they probably have trained to be on stage and live off their dream? How frustrating and lonely it is at the times they were separated from their families, but they endured it so they can be picture perfect for their fans? They could have had a different life than being an idol really. They could have been majoring in college right now, worrying about graduation and projects or what job they’re gonna get after they graduate but they didn’t. They chose this life. And now they’re gone. A whole future, gone.

This is the first time I cried over someone I don’t even know. I guess in all my years of being a fan girl, from Michael Jackson to Harry Potter to Linkin Park to EXO and now to K-POP, I think this is different. It’s a whole new different level from all my fangirling experience. I guess I’m pretty serious and attached to K-POP now.

 I didn’t even listen to Ladies’ Code before. I don’t even know who EunB and RiSe are. But I cried. Because it’s so sad. And it’s so unfair.

 

This is an eye opener. And we should realize how much this event would break a fangirl/boy's heart, especially to Ladies' Code fans,  which is way beyond any of us has ever experienced.

I mean we get hurt when we see the love of our life date someone else and we try to be happy and supportive even though we're heartbroken. We get hurt when we see our idols getting bashed by the irrational people who misunderstand our idols over some rumor. We get hurt when we see our idol groups fall apart and struggle to stay one and cohesive when a member leaves or goes hiatus. We get hurt when see our idols fall apart and cry on TV because they feel no one understands them. We want to save our idols from sasaeng fans who mistreats our idols and cross lines that shouldn’t be crossed because we see them getting hurt. It hurt us whenever we see them collapse or break down because of too much pressure. And it hurts to see the times we see our idols confess that they are not happy and they have to put on a facade every time they go on stage because they have to. They have to be strong even though they are falling apart. And this is all for us. And THAT HURTS TO WATCH. It breaks my heart because these people are humans. They're like us. They've always been like us. They fall, they break, they bleed, they embarrass easily and they get hurt. But they endure every single thing because they have to be grateful for their fans because they know that by the end of the day, it’s the fans that serve as their pillar. It’s the public and the fans who would define what they’re going to be in the industry. They have my respect for this because I don’t think I’ll be able to do what they do. Pretty much give up everything, including their privacy just so we could be entertained.

We know how a one big rumor ruins a career. We’ve seen it this year. 2014 is so ed up for K-POP, don’t you think?

 

I really can’t imagine what the Ladies' Code fans and EunB and RiSe stans are feeling right now. Going online and getting the news that your idol PASSED AWAY AND IS FOREVER GONE? How are you gonna cope with that? How are you gonna handle something like that? It's tragic. It's way beyond words.

 

So right now, we need to give them an extra hand. We, as fans, know what kind of love we have for our groups and idols. Just imagine this even happening to them, wouldn't you fall apart too?

 

So let's treasure the little moments we still have for our idols, before it's too late. Let's support and cheer them on because they need it. The media and the haters are vicious. They're everywhere. And as celebrities, these idols are exposed to all of these. Let's protect them, like we used to do it. Protect them in a positive way. Ignore the hate and focus more on the love.

 

To the Ladies' Code fans... we are here for you. Whenever you need to talk, you can always rely on someone out there who would give you comfort. It hurts right now, but it's gonna get better soon. We're holding your hand. Stay strong. WE ARE HERE.

 

To the Ladies’ Code family members and to their closest friends… God, it already hurts for us. I am so sorry that this has to happen. I really am sorry. I wish we can do anything, ANYTHING that could help you move on, but we’re sorry that the only ones we can give you are words and prayers.

To their manager and driver, thank you for taking care of the girls. You've worked so hard. You've been so helpful and the girls won't be there without your guidance. You can rest now. Sincere condolences goes out to your family. 

 

To the 3 remaining members of Ladies' Code... you might hear this word a lot but... FIGHTING! No matter what happens, your fans are there. We are here. You’ve been so strong. Our prayers are with you and God is too.

 

EunB and RiSe, wherever you are… thank you for all the smiles, the positivity and for lending your art to the KPOP family. Somewhere out there, you saved a life with your talent. We hope that before you passed, you were happy. And at least… you guys are together.

 

i dont believe in 'bestfriend forever' but rise and eunb says it all :) - baekstations

 

goodbye girls.. we'll miss you..

 

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aniangel07
#1
I didn`t listen to their songs too, but this is so sad and unfair.
avisdawn #2
Deat really is anywhere, whether you are young or old, famous or not.
I'm not a fan of them, but i really want to cry because of what happened, when your age is on 20's your life is just starting, you are going to the of your career.....I'm only 17 but imagining myself having a friend like them or acquaintance or putting myself on their shoes, it's really a dissapointment......
They still have dreams that they wanted to fulfill.......

I wish that they will not suffer anymore, and be happy in heaven,

May you, EunB and RiSe, rest in peace