My Story.. (Read if you want)
Okay, well here is just a rant about my life. It's kinda long but I would appreciate it if you would answer the question below too.
I AM SOOO ING PISSED OFF!!!!!! UGH.
So, recently...my ex boyfriend and I had just broken up. I thought my life was just getting better because our relationship was NOT going well at all. At the time, I had family problems to deal with that I had to handle all alone. I held it all in and our ONGOING arguments did NOT help me at all. Seriously, our first day of meeting in a LONG time turned out to be an argument only. It would constantly go on and I got so tired of it. I had school to deal with and two other things were not helping me at all. I was NOT myself. I wasn't happy and I was depressed. So, one day..I told all my friends and I just bursted out crying my eyes out. Everything was just really hard on me that I just wanted to end my life. They gave me good advice so I was happy to have them by my side.
And he is obviously not helping too. He even asked me if he could take another person to the school dance. -.- LIKE, WHAT KIND OF ING GUY DOES THAT?! Soo...I told myself we were not working out and our relationship has already fallen. There's no point of staying in a relationship that is NOT going to work out anymore. I tried...but it was just tooo hard. He's also the people who HATES discussing things and just wanting to forget about it. He HATES talking it out.
So then, he told me I was not putting any effort into the relationship at all. -___- He told me I am not strong that's why I can't fight for our love. Like, WHAT BULL ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?! I'VE STAYED STRONG THROUGHOUT OUR WHOLE RELATIONSHIP BUT YOU'RE THE ONE WHO'S BEEN ING IT UP! Throughout our whole relationship, I've helped you out with your family problems and been there for you.
And what do you do in return? Say I am weak and can't fight for our relationship. You've been the one who was unfaithful in our relationship. So, I decided to talk to his best friend which is a girl. She gave me a whole lot of good advice. She said, "After listening to his side of the story and yours, I think that he hasn't been a very good boyfriend lately. Just because I am his best friend, it doesn't mean I am going to side with him. Just do what you think that's best. Don't feel guilty because I know you need some time off.." And..I love her for giving me such a good talk.
And, I told him about my family problems, and he DID NOT give me any advice at all. All he said was, "Okay, well then do you need some space?"
So, I broke it off.
And a day after we broke it off, he went calling other girls cute. -.-
And just a couple minutes ago, HE POSTED UP A STATUS ON FACEBOOK SAYING HE DOES NOT KNOW A REASON WHY WE BROKE UP BESIDES MY FAMILY PROBLEM. And his friends commented saying that maybe I found another guy. -.-
Like, WOW. Okay, you guys haven't even heard my side of the story yet and you guys are already assuming I went and cheat behind his ing back.
WOW! Okay, YOU ALL TOO THEN. -.-t
Honestly, I 100% do NOT regret breaking up with a guy who cannot man up and take the relationship into his hands!
Like, I'm done. I AM SOOOO DONE.
What would you guys do if you were in MY situation?
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