My Story.. (Read if you want)

 

 

Okay, well here is just a rant about my life. It's kinda long but I would appreciate it if you would answer the question below too.

 

I AM SOOO ING PISSED OFF!!!!!! UGH.

So, recently...my ex boyfriend and I had just broken up. I thought my life was just getting better because our relationship was NOT going well at all. At the time, I had family problems to deal with that I had to handle all alone. I held it all in and our ONGOING arguments did NOT help me at all. Seriously, our first day of meeting in a LONG time turned out to be an argument only. It would constantly go on and I got so tired of it. I had school to deal with and two other things were not helping me at all. I was NOT myself. I wasn't happy and I was depressed. So, one day..I told all my friends and I just bursted out crying my eyes out. Everything was just really hard on me that I just wanted to end my life. They gave me good advice so I was happy to have them by my side.

 

And he is obviously not helping too. He even asked me if he could take another person to the school dance. -.- LIKE, WHAT KIND OF ING GUY DOES THAT?! Soo...I told myself we were not working out and our relationship has already fallen. There's no point of staying in a relationship that is NOT going to work out anymore. I tried...but it was just tooo hard. He's also the people who HATES discussing things and just wanting to forget about it. He HATES talking it out.

 

So then, he told me I was not putting any effort into the relationship at all. -___- He told me I am not strong that's why I can't fight for our love. Like, WHAT BULL ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?! I'VE STAYED STRONG THROUGHOUT OUR WHOLE RELATIONSHIP BUT YOU'RE THE ONE WHO'S BEEN ING IT UP! Throughout our whole relationship, I've helped you out with your family problems and been there for you.

 

And what do you do in return? Say I am weak and can't fight for our relationship. You've been the one who was unfaithful in our relationship. So, I decided to talk to his best friend which is a girl. She gave me a whole lot of good advice. She said, "After listening to his side of the story and yours, I think that he hasn't been a very good boyfriend lately. Just because I am his best friend, it doesn't mean I am going to side with him. Just do what you think that's best. Don't feel guilty because I know you need some time off.." And..I love her for giving me such a good talk.

 

And, I told him about my family problems, and he DID NOT give me any advice at all. All he said was, "Okay, well then do you need some space?"

 

So, I broke it off.

And a day after we broke it off, he went calling other girls cute. -.-

 

And just a couple minutes ago, HE POSTED UP A STATUS ON FACEBOOK SAYING HE DOES NOT KNOW A REASON WHY WE BROKE UP BESIDES MY FAMILY PROBLEM. And his friends commented saying that maybe I found another guy. -.-

 

Like, WOW. Okay, you guys haven't even heard my side of the story yet and you guys are already assuming I went and cheat behind his ing back.

WOW! Okay, YOU ALL TOO THEN. -.-t

Honestly, I 100% do NOT regret breaking up with a guy who cannot man up and take the relationship into his hands!

Like, I'm done. I AM SOOOO DONE.

 

 

What would you guys do if you were in MY situation?

 

 

 

 

 

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Cathy_HYeol
#1
Yep, It's the best way to let it go, I'm sure you'll fine a better man, maybe u two were not meant to be.. But if it is I'm sure there'll be a change~ So, Don't worry and just live your life, It might be Hurt So much but the best way is to Move on.. FIGHTING!
Kris_is_mystyle
#2
I've would've done the same thing. I kinda understand because I went through this with my friend lately. Like if he isn't gonna repay something back u give, don't give anything back to him at all. Stay strong !!! Like if he's like dat don't waste time on someone who isn't gonna care back to you. fighting unnie
Kpopmusic_lover
#3
I was in the same situation girl. Like my ex would ing go around flirting while we were dating! And he didn't really care when I told him about my family problems. So then I broke up with his and he's all like "oh give me another chance baby" and I was like no go with the s. And I think you did the right thing BREAKING UP WITH HIS . Like if it was me and his friends say that I'll be like you es listen to my side before you judge or imma beat all your asses! And I'm here if you need help or someone to talk to. HWAITING SISTA!
sehunxexoo #4
Honestly idk what to say.. I'm not really good at talking about these types of situations ;-; But I really hope you're okay and time will heal & just don't think about him and ignore him being an idiot , and I know what you've been through, and because I've held in my feelings too and I told my friend and she gave me advice. (Omg and she's like 10 yrs. old but she's considered my cousin xD ) Anyway I hope you'll feel better and I really hope you'll be okay and we'll always be here to support you !~ Saranghae from all of us >.< ^_^
Exokrisluhansehun
#5
i would first ask him to meet me and would beat him into a pulp if i knew martial arts
btw heart attack by exo fit your story
Bao_Kris
#6
Honestly, I've been hiding something from you Amy. The time when you guys first dated, I already hate him, I mean been hating him. Because I'm his cousin, I already know he's like. But it was just that you're my bestfriend and I don't want to ruin your relationship so I hide the part that i hated Wai all this time. Janny and I had been talking (s) about him. Sorry to say this at the last minute, but yeah. WHat you did was a great choice and just live your life from now on. Be strong, and I'll be there for you, always and will do.
Cuteprincess1712
#7
Why I have no idea about this at all? Btw, don't waste your time on something that's not going to help you at all. You told me you were okay. And this is okay? Were you lying to me?