Pissed off rant
Okay, so this is a really personal rant that probably makes sense to zero percent of the aff population but I needed to get this out.
So on tumblr two or three weeks ago, this guy added me. We started talking and it was all sweet and fun, he was extremely "caring". Recently however, he started saying things that were.. well, creepy. Things like, "Oh is your face red because I kissed you too much" and "If I go to China will you sleep with me." He also started sending me a lot of pickup lines. I'm usually a very flirtatious person, like I think of it as playful bantering more than flirting, but when he started saying things like this i began to get a little bit suspicious.
I sent part of a message I had with him to a friend to see if I was just being over-dramatic and she told me that she had gotten the exact same message from him. Exact same. Another friend told me the same thing.
So it turns out he was on tumblr, talking to around a dozen girls, complimenting and blatantly flirting with them. More and more stuff came up until one day, we somehow got to the topic of guy friends and i told him I had a few. When he told me to show him, I sent him two pics. He accused me of touching them too much, basically calling me a .
Excuse you. Who are you to say anything about me or to judge me. You man-. Stop acting like a jealous boyfriend.
Some more stuff came up until some friends and I basically figured out he was feeding us all a bunch of lies. You can see this link here for specifics. I honestly feel so betrayed and really upset. He really just manipulated a bunch of girls with lies and he's probably found more "minions".
And then I got this. I think this made me the most upset. Why. I'm honestly trying to help people because he's not trustworthy. He acts like a creep and is basically an attention . He told me I was his "ideal type" only to ask if I'm 14. He's 19?
But then some person has to come up to me and has the guts to tell me, I'm the jealous . I wrote that whole entire thing, trying to convince people not to fall too deep into his lies, and she comes and tells me I'm just jealous because he didn't like me enough.
Obviously. That's exactly why I blocked him on kkt and tumblr, you .
This disgusts me. That people would do this; lie to girls on the internet for their pity and affection. This has traumatized some of my friends when they found out because the internet world suddenly seems so ing dangerous. He's messed up the trust of a lot of people. And he's still on tumblr weaving lies and acting innocent.
I once spent two hours with a friend comforting him during one of his "pity-me-days", and trust me, he had a lot of those. I can't believe I've wasted time on him. So much time.
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