Okai, I have this..."friend". And her husband just told her that "promise" is just a word. 

she used to think promises meant something more than that. Like she believed them with all her hear. But recently, like the last three years she's been disappointed like...A LOT.

after he said that she is even questioning her wedding vows.

AND TODAY HE TELLS HER THAT HE WANTS TO HAVE  SEPARATE BANK ACCOUNTS AND NOT TOUCH EACH OTHERS MONEY. 

this is is AFTER theyve been married for five years. What should she think about that? How should she feel?