Friendly Chit Chat

Hello Lovelies,

I noticed that I have quite a few friends here on AFF, but I don't get a chance to talk to you all. As writers, we sometimes forget how important it is to have a good relationship with our readers. Too many people have let the glitter and shimmer of popularity turn them into vain AFF divas. At the end of the day, it isn't about that little gold star beside your story title or your rank. It's about the craft, the fun and joy that you get from writing. I know I'm going off on a tangent completely different from the point of this post, but I'd just like to take the time to say how much I appreciate each and every one of you. You guys give me hope and make me smile with all of your comments and adorable and engaging blog posts. I know I took a huge leap by deactivating my previous account (which I weep about every now and again) but it gave me a chance to start off fresh free from the wave of false popularity. Deep down inside, I'm still and always will be N3RDLogic. That account had some awesome memories, but it feels good to create new ones with new and old friends alike. I don't want to get too sentimental, but I love the AFF community. Though we fuss, fight, and drive each other completely insane, we are one big family. To see that a member of our family has actually gotten published is sort of a beacon of hope for the rest of us. Though I haven't gotten the chance to meet Esther, I am truly proud of her accomplishments. It only inspires me to never give up on my dream of becoming a published author some day. Whether you are a new writer or a seasoned veteran, you are all amazing. Remember that. Never let anyone discourage you from writing because no matter what anyone says you are of value. We all have to start from somewhere, right? So what if your grammar isn't perfect! Yeah, your plot may be cliché but it's yours. We need to stop worrying so much about being better than the next person and focus on being the best that we can be for ourselves. 

Ah, my friendly chit chat has turned into a rant xD But, I seriously would like to get to know you all a little better. Don't be afraid to talk to me. Whether you believe it or not, I actually LOVE hearing what you have to say. I guess it would help if I introduced myself first. For those of you who don't know me, my name is Markita. I'm twenty-one years old, and like many people my age, I have yet to fully grasp this thing we call "college". I'm an avid reader, writer, and researcher. I LOVE learning about new subjects, cultures, and ways of thinking. I literally took the word 'nerd' and ditched the stereotype to turn it into something cool. I probably spend more time on electronics than I should, but what can I say, there always something fun to do and new to try. Did I mention that music is life? I love how universal it is and how it speaks to so many people. It's amazing! My favorite groups are SHINee, EXO, and GG. SM biased, much? I listen to tons of other groups, but those three just have my heart. SHINee, to me, is probably the best of the three. Their talent, resilience, and effervescence just reaches me deep to the core. I love them!

My bias list will most likely be the size of a grocery list but HERE WE GO.

SHINee (this is SO hard because I literally love them all)

Jonghyun (ultimate bias) & Key

EXO

Chanyeol & Kris (le Wu Yi Fan) [he IS and will always be a member of EXO to me]

SUJU

Eunhyuk & Donghae

BIGBANG

GD & TOP

​2PM

Chansung

DBSK

I want them all... xD

BAP

​Yongguk & Zelo

CNBLUE

Yonghwa 

VIXX

Ravi & N (he's so adorable like how can you not like him <3)

I'm just gonna say all of AOMG & Illionaire because I CANNOT even begin to choose. Like have you seen Jay Park and Gray? LAWD HAVE MERCY!

GG

Yuri & Tiffany (SLAYYY

F(X)

Amber & Luna (SLAYYY x2)

2NE1

​Bom (such a cutie!)

SISTAR

​The gorgeous and incredibly talented Hyorin

AFTER SCHOOL

Nana & Kahi (SLAYYY x3)

KARA

Nicole

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AnaisNin1 #1
My bais is my muse is also my muse:).
lovebapx2
#2
Hi~ i think it's so so great of you to talk with your readers. That you're really interested in us :) i'm sorry i never really talked to you or anything but you could say i'm still 'new' here and i don't want to bother anyone here... I can't really compare my biases to yours because i don't really have one xD well in vixx it's also ravi and n. I don't know why xD f(x) it's amber. But for example in exo i have phases were chanyeol is my bias and then it's chen xD does that make sense? Okay i'm writing so much nonsense, i'm sorry :/ your poor post
I take it that there are not many authors who want to actually talk to us but just want to get upvotes and subscribers so i really appreciate what you're doing. Thanks :D :-) i hope we canbcome friends :)
whovian #3
I think we've had one or two very minor conversations, but I have never really shared anything about myself other than my name. I'll introduce a bit of myself now. My name is Adrianna and I'm also 21 (well, I'll be 22 on August 20th...getting old sigh).

Our biases are really similar within the groups you listed. It kind of surprised me.
SHINee: JongHyun (his personality is so awesome) and Onew is a close second.

EXO: ChanYeol (this boy is so adorable for being so big) and Chen is right after.

SuJu: EunHyuk (before I really got to watch how the members were, his face put me off (YES, Iknow, I'm SCUM) but then it grew on me along with his personality).

Big Bang: GD (he is too damn cute for his own good).

2PM: Chansung (he also put me off like EunHyuk, but he too just grew on me).

BAP: Bang Yong Guk. This guy right here is my ultimate bias. He can do no wrong. He is damn perfect. I adore him so much. Zelo is second. He is so fluffy. Noona wants to protect him.

Gray. Yes, I really like his music and his face. I don't really know much about him other than the tiny tidbits he reveals through his instagram which is left to what I interpret it as.

f(x): Amber (she is just really cool and seems like she would make an awesome friend).

After f(x), my biases from the groups you mentioned are all different.

I'm tempted to just go on and talk about my biases from other groups, but I doubt you really want me to go on about that haha

I love music. I listen to a lot of indie, alternative, and rock. I don't really listen to mainstream pop English music, which is kind of funny since I really love kpop.
I read when I have time. I really enjoy reading classical literature and my favorite author is John Steinbeck. He is an amazing writer, and captures your attention with little effort because his writing are so down to earth and comfortable and just welcoming.

I feel that this is begining to turn into a rant of nonsense, so I'll stop here haha
jongdayifun
#4
we have so many biases in common like Kris Yongguk Ravi N Hyukjae Jonghyun and also Hyorin ( the only girl group i biased xD ) ! and you're such a nice author bc most of those famous authors out there are care abt nothing other than amount of comments, subscribers and votes they'd get on their every updates. so it's really heartwarming to see an author wanting to have a talk with their readers :')