CAN YOU GUYS HELP ME? PLEASEEEEEE.

Okay so how should i start. but first i hope you guys bear with my english as this language is not my mother tongue.

okayyyy ..i really have a crush on this guy. I shall call him AN. he's a year older than me. he's a shy person you know and he doesn't even like to talk or communicate with girls unless he has to. i'm always like staring at him at school and yeahh, stalking him (pardon me) . so one day (like a few months ago) i wanna test him whether he wants to talk with a girl or not. i asked my friend to chat with him on fb. and his reply is 'no sorry,not interested' . i'n kinda lose hope. he doesn't even notice me. but things got better after few months. i personally gave him a birthday present. after that, i'm always chatting with him on fb till now. suprisingly, he replied. but its always me that have to start a conversation between us. hmm. is that a sign that he loves me back? or is he just considered me as his friend ? or just because i gave him a present? i mean is that the excuses that he replied to my chat or he really wants to know me. please help me . i'm so so confused. i feel frustrated. he seems to have his eyes on another girl based on his statuses on fb. what should i do? and what should i do to make him love me? i'm nearly gave up on him because he's too hard to get. but i really really love him :'( help me pleaseee.

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koreanchibi #1 Jul 19, 2014 11:24:21

Okay, so after you gave him a present, he seemed to have opened up a little and allowed you to talk to him because he may think you're friendly. I'm assuming you guys haven't known each other for long, so you can't really say that he loves you. And if you're the one to start the conversations, that's a sign that he isn't really interested. Or maybe its because he's shy, like you said. He may feel uncomfortable talking or starting conversations. It's most likely he only thinks of you as a friend. Maybe you should get to know him better but don't push it since you said he doesn't like talking to girls. Regarding his interest on another girl, that's something you have no control of. And you don't have to make him love/like you. If he can't like you for who you truly are, then he's not for you. You don't have to change yourself for him.

If you really do adore him, then you shouldn't give up. I have had a crush on a guy 2 years older than me for 3 years now and I haven't given up. I would tell you what happened, but I don't know if you're even interested. Anyway, whether or not he likes you is something you have to find out yourself. Get to know him and talk to him in school. Then, just maybe, one day you could ask him how he feels or you could confess to him. Right now, he may feel uncomfortable since he doesn't know you well. Much luck to you~ <3 (sorry if this was long, and this is only what I think so you can choose to ignore it)

Love_Potion #2 Jul 19, 2014 02:44:50

I think he likes you as a friend. Maybe when he starts texting/mesaging you first then yea it's a bit more than friends.
But seriously don't listen to me. I'm stupid Cx I give out horrible advice lol