The Dating Thing

How do I start it?

Well, let's say hello first.

Hello~!

I want to write a little about how I feel regarding Baekhyun's dating matter. This is basically my opinion, it's up to you to judge it whatsoever (I don't really care).

Is it just me or the whole dating thing actually means mourning?

I don't get it, honestly, since when falling in love or dating someone is a sin? It's his right. Baekhyun is a HUMAN too, you know? he's not perfect, but that's exactly why I'm a fan of his.

If you say you feel betrayed... listen, he never specifically said that he'd stay single. He just said he'd stay the same until 35 (correct me if I'm wrong). If I do remember it wrong, and baekhyun did promise he'd stay single til forever. Then, it's your fault to believe the words of an entertainer. Come on, it's not like he's a prince of your OWN to begin with. You have to learn to draw a line between reality and your DELUSION.

and if you say, Baekhyun has terrible past and terrible behavior... let me clear this up too. Just as I said before, Baekhyun... no, our idols aren't perfect, they aren't princes from the shiny world just like you thought they be. Even a saint has dirty pasts, that's the truth, and there's none of us who don't have any cracks or blunders in our lives. Well, if you say you're flawless, I believe it's bull. Baekhyun or other EXO members are the same. the only different is that they're famous while we're... busy spending time in front of our gadgets. Even now, we're even grumbling or gossiping about someone else's life. Dare to say we're any better than Baekhyun now? :)

Human makes mistakes and learns from it.

I swear our fandom has a lot of dramas going on. If this keeps on, the fandom itself will crumble apart because of the fans' childish behaviors. If they want to leave the fandom, then let them leave. It's better small but peaceful rather than big but chaotic.

and also, it's your choice to live as a victim of the world or live as an adventurer in search of treasure. It all depends on how you view life.

I'm not writing it to defend Baekhyun, not at all. Just as I said, it's all about my perspective.

that's all I want to say,

Have a good day~! We Are One!

-Hatter-

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krispylays_eater #1
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krispylays_eater #2
I don't think it's all 'because' of Baek's dating with Taeyeon..
I do believe that the reason why so many fans left is for all that happened these past days/weeks ... I mean, everything is just so confusing and disappointing and sad that they thought it was better for them to leave the fandom..
Look, I'm not defending them. At all. And, tbh I had a moment I seriously wanted to leave, too. When there was Kris' issue, I was like 'oh god what are we all gonna do without him!' and 'if he's not with EXO then there's no EXO at all!' etc. etc. But some time later I managed to go on, because really, if he's got healthy problems we don't have any right to judge him for leaving --referred to the ones accusing him to be a traitor or what else... (〒︿〒)

Now there's this dating thing..
Well, I can't believe every single Baek's/Taeyeon's fan didn't feel a little sad the moment they knew about it. I bet there's none, everyone felt something moving through their stomach, something uneasy that is.
But then again, I thought it was none of my busyness. They can date whoever they want. Life's theirs and nobody else's.

--but deep inside, like many others, I think that's just something SM created for us to forget about Kris.... ╮(╯▽╰)╭
I think it's really a bad and a very inappropriate thing to do towards them, but if all this is true...well, yea, as long as he's happy I think we have to just let him be, and continue to support our lovely EXO, no matter what.

So, what am saying is that we don't have to judge each other for our acts, because then some of you are really incoherent, stating one thing to one part but not recognizing that same thing to the other.
Let's just all be good fans and love them, okay? EXO needs us, now more than anything. And the same goes for the GG. Exotics and Sones, don't be immature and try to comprehend each other's parts.
krispylays_eater #3
Wow, you said exactly what I said on a Facebook post 30 minutes ago (๑・v・๑)
--mainly the last part
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