Okay, I'm waiting for the raging blog posts about Tae and baekhyun dating, so preparing for that, but I just want to try out the encouragement beforehand. Don't stop writing if that's what you like doing. If TaeNy was your inspiration, don't let it go. Fanfic is fiction, so let reality twist if you need. I've read so much about people gaining the courage to be themselves and learning to be accepting of themselves because of getting into the ship, so just try to think about that. 

Don't lose heart guys. Take a couple days or so away from soshi related things if you need to, or bury yourself in it to remember why you love them in the first place. But remember life goes on and we'll all get through it. And if that doesn't work, remember when Goo Hara and Junhyung of Beast dated. It was a big deal, then it was silent about them, then it was revealed they broke up. Dating doesn't necessarily lead to marriage.

Just be happy for their happiness, even if you don't agree with their choices. That's what family should be about. Supporting you family even when you question their choices. You just need to be there for them when they need it. And SONE and Soshi are family, even with a difference in language and continent. And remember SONE will never be appreciated and loved less if they're dating. Loving means you have more, not less love to give (a lesson I learned from an awesome fic by Auratus, Soshi's House of Classic Horror).