Life Lessons

As you all know, things happen in life. s happen but it's there for a reason. Remember that. People are there for a reason. That doesn't mean you should just lay back and go with the flow. If you want something, you gotta fight hard for it. Show some efforts. 

In my whole 12 years of life, I've learnt so many facinating things about life and about myself. I'm sure everyone of us has been through obstacles and storms before you get to your rainbow. Not everyone has the same story, and not everyone feels the same pain. Some might live a rather luxurious and carefree life while other will have to fight for those things. I'm sure everyone of us has a little scar which reminds them of the horrible past but life goes on. It ain't gonna wait for you to catch up.

Don't even think about sulking in a corner and just wait for the good things to come. That's because things don't just come to you. Good things, valuable things have to be worked hard for. Now, I've experienced it before. I tried to just let it go with the flow but ended up in a mess to be fix. So if you're waiting for that one special one to come along, don't just sit there and wait like a retard. Get up on your feet and go find them. Coz I've been wondering when will my prince charming comes along. I think he got eaten by a lion or something, somehwere in the jungle. Poor idiot.

Anyway, we have friends which left behind good memories and some left behind lessons. Love those good friends but love the fake ones more for they have teached you a very valuable life lesson. I guess I have more to say about this "Friendship" topic since I have a very good experience in them. I don't mean by having great friends but I have befriended variety of people and learnt about those different types of people.

So, I was kinda being picked on eversince I was young. You can call that bullying if you prefer that instead. Sice I was the youngest, they started to pick on me. They thought I was easy to use, to play around with but I prove them wrong. They told me to do things and I refused to. Things got a lot better when I changed school just a year ago. Now, though I don't have much close friends, at least they were nice to me. They treated me like a sister, it's just heartwarming.  

This experience did not stop me from interacting with others. This awful childhood experience had built a stronger me. The one that can do things I couldn't do in the past. I am braver, stronger both mentally and physically. I'm proud of who I am so you should be proud too. Coz each and everyone of us is unique and special in our own ways. To all those out there who are struggling to stay strong, to break free from your problems, stay strong and be yourself. Stand up for yourself and don't let other people tell you what to do or who you are. No one can control you.  No one knows you better than you do. So believe in yourself and don't be afraid to take the leap. The answer will always be no if you don't ask. It's better to try and get hurt than to not try and stay hidden. 

Be true to yourself and don't be afraid to be different. Sometimes different is better than being the same. Being the same is boring. You're born original. Don't die a copy. If people can't see the best in you then they are blind. Don't change for anyone.

Same goes for love. Love the person for who they are not who you want them to be. See the difference? I'm sorry to say that love is unfair. Love is cruel, complicated, confusing and unpredictable. If you really are meant to be, things will work out no matter how hard things get. You guys will make it through safely, together.

I sound like an expert but believe me when I tell you that I've never been in any relationship before. Not even one. But I giess...I just like to observe people all around me. Anyway, I read quotes and stuff so these things automatically register into my brain. 

Well, I guess that's all I have to say. This whole blog was just written down in a rash moment when I thought of all these stuff. It just appeared in my mind and I thought maybe I could share it with you guys. Anyway, thanks for taking your time to read this! Annyeong!

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Jiyeon_JN
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O.M.G DUDE YOU ARE AWESOME