Help me!!!!!

Hello

So, I have a problem. Not with school or friends. With family. Most of it my father.

Today, after I got home from my french exam, I saw that Topp Dogg have a new song. I was so happy because I really love Topp Dogg. Of course, I looked at it and I really liked. So I told myself to show it to my mother too, because she likes some songs too. And there was mt father too.

So I took my iPad and started playing the new MV. And then, A-Tom came to the screen. My dad started telling me what is that and all the things like that. He said that A-Tom was gay and that he dress like a girl and lookes like one. 

I didn't listen and continued watching it. And then it was Hansol part. He started saying things about him too and that really hurt me. Hansol is my bias and I really like him. He is a great dancer and he is so cute. 

Then my dad really started being mad and all. I told him that is normal that they look a little bit like girls. Like come on! There is Luhan too. And Luhan is my ultime bias.

And after that he said that this is why people write things about them (you know...the things). And he told me to stop listening to k-pop.

That really hurt me, because k-pop is my life. It's actually the best thing that happened in my life. If you saw me before that. I was only listening to sad music and I was mean with everybody.

He only saw A-Tom and Hansol in one video and he started bashing on all the k-pop. I really wanted to cry and just run in my room and lock myself in there. I can't take it anymore.

Please, help me.

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LoverDeDonghae
#1
it's your life not his
my dad had also told me that but i did't care.. kpop idols made me laugh when no one made me laugh! just seeing BTS my mood would change to the best mood ever
NO ONE of my family made me laugh like that
BTS made me cried laughing to the first time of my life NOT MY FAMILY
so yeah dont listen to him
Baozi_baekhyun #2
Dont listen to your dad (thats my option cuz i dont listen to him)! Its your life and confront him saying that liking kpop is not bad! They dont do anything to you!