Ok so earlier I recieved a message on my kik. It was a female and she said "I have been looking for you. Where are you from?"

At first I'm like oh ok must be someone from here or someone who follows me well on instagram. So I replied but I did say where I was from. 

Her reply didn't make much sence but It pretty much said, "...  Oh I saw you were online, what's up?"among other things. Which I find odd that it said I was online because she wasn't even a contact of mine on kik nor do I think kik tell you when someone is online. So this is the first red flag. Oh and also she sent the message around 7-8 am but I didn't see it until maybe 3pm. So another red flag there.

None the less I replied, "I'm at my uncles. Where did you get my kik?" 

She ignored the question and said something like, " Just here, ou don't mind talking to a bored single 23/f."

This just made know something was up. I thought this was just a prank from one of my friends since one of them before told a girl my kik and somewhat the same situation as I'm going to describe happened. 

So I just decided to ask once again where she got my kik along with where it said I was online because that's when it occured to me.

Once again she ignored the questions. Then the girl waslike "so.. what kind of girls are you into? Are you into BIG s of a BIG ;) "

This is when I'm like ok maybe my friends are playing a prank on me.

I reply with, "I'm not into girl I'm into men. Seriously where did you get my kik?"

Again ignored and she said,"lol I have BOTH;) I have some free time now that my roomate went out wanna see? it's up to you I'm in the mood."

I snapped. "Did you not even bother to read I'm into MEN." Then I blocked her since I saw a picture message come through or something.

I began to grill my friends who are stupid enough to do something about it and they were innocent. Then after a while I began to think who could it be. Many of the people from this site tend to mesage me on line and tell me they are from here and they read such and such story. Fine. Then I only really talk to 2 people from instagram on a regular basis but I have others that message me when they can.

So as I was talking to my friend about this I remmeber I was having a conversation with a member here in December. She was asking me some rather uncomfortable questions on subjects I rather not dicuss with an online stranger that I had just messaged for a day or two about really nothing. Of course if you haven't figured it out they were questions of ual nature and I just decided not to message her. She was of similar age as the person that messaged me and it may be her or it may not. I'm just saying it made me uncomfortable and stuff.

I know I write t on here but I would never trade such picture or even want one. Not even to mention another womans. I'm not against same couples I just prefer Men.  I also would never do what she was hinting at doing which you guys can probably guess at. Writing and actually doing the things written in are two different things. just pretty much requires a fangirls naughty thoughts and somewhere to record them.

Guys if you are ever uncomfortable ever messaging to someone or feellike somehing isn't right please just stop messaging the person and maybe block them if you have to. I'm old enough to understand and awknoledge my intuition but some younger girl may not.

I'll stop being a big sister for now xD

[sorry for grammar errors I'm typing this on my phone]