Read this:

http://www.teepr.com/%E4%B8%80%E5%90%8D%E4%B8%8D%E7%9F%A5%E5%90%8D%E5%A5%B3%E5%AD%90%E5%AF%AB%E7%9A%84%E8%A9%A9%E8%A2%AB%E7%95%AB%E6%88%90%E6%BC%AB%E7%95%AB/

It's not anything scary or sudden burst of emotions spurring (well, feels of sympathy yes)

Well, you can choose to read it or not.