If you want to share a comment, a wallpost or even a private message, regardless of your intention, blur out or erase the username. We can't control the reaction of other people but we can control what we can share to everyone. 

We should not put a person in a place where everyone can easily make negative opinions about them based on one post. You know how everyone loves to criticize and find fault on one another. (That's why linking the plagiarizer is a no-no. Even if user did commit a crime, we don't feed them to the wolves. An author left AFF before after popular author put her on blast. Minions left nasty messages in her inbox and wall and so she left. Cyberbullying is also a crime.)

Our mods, esp Andi, has always reminded us not put anyone on blast. Don't be a jerk, our ToU says. 

But I understand the need to share the feels. Just be discreet about it. Be ninja, or try to be ninja. Even though some users know who you are talking about, at least you didn't mention a name, aha

Also, don't make a decision when you are highly emotional. Cool down first or you'll regret it later. 

(I can be a hyprocrite sometimes. Remember codename:star and my blogs? I don't even have a justification for keeping you updated about that issue lol)

Would you be interested in beauty tips? A friend is contemplating whether to make one or not. I say, go! 

Also, Kira blogged about the different AFF classifications. Don't take it too seriously. Here is the link.