Coming Out?
My mom keeps asking me if I'm gay. She doesn't ask bluntly, she constantly beats around the bush.
She brings up my ex-boyfriend and says things like "You just don't seem that interested in boys."
No mom. Cause I'm gay.
Well I like boys and girls. Mostly girls. And I know this is clichè but I hate labeling myself as "gay". I just like nice people who are nice to look at lol.
And then she'll ask "Do you like boys?" and of course I say yes.
I don't feel like talking about it with her because I feel that it doesn't need to be discussed like it's out of the ordinary. A heteroual teen doesn't sit their parents down and say "I'm straight" and have a discussion about it. So why should homoual teens? It's not that big of a deal and frankly I just don't want to talk about it.
I've spent so many years in denial, hating myself for being who I am, and I'm done.
I'm not "coming out". I'm just doing what I want.
I don't need to announce it.
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