In need of advice...

So, I'm sorry this is nothing pertaining to my fics, but how do you overcome hatred? How do you guys overcome people's judgement? Which hurts more? Being hurt by a stranger or being hurt by the people who you thought cared for you? I don't know...I'm sorry for posting useless-ness but...I just want personal advice.... the internet has many lists and advices but it's all typical. ...I want to know from you guys to see if it would help me. 

I'm sorry, this is just a rant.....but I would appreciate any advice at all.

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boitoitons #1
It might seem weird, but I usually like to think that I am better than those people who hate on me or hurt me emotionally. It works for me but I don't do that for anyone else. As for from who it hurts most from… I'd say the one from those you thought cared about you because those people are the ones who know you better (if not best) from strangers, strangers don't know anything about you.
Accuse #2
Hatred is energy-consuming and pointless. At the end of the day, you've invested so much energy into hatred for nothing, why? Because the other person that you seem to hate is living their life as though nothing happened. Just don't care about others that way. Takes time, but you'll get the hang of it.
sehunlovelymaknae #3
I would ignore them. I know it's hard especially after being hurt by someone you actually thought cared for but that's not a true friend at all. You need to find friends that would actually very there for you and support you all the way No matter What.
SteamingSehbooty #4
You have to get new friends, if people who 'care' for you or people you care about hurt you constantly. Obviously it's not a very healthy relationship, maybe you should just get new friends sometimes we just have to let go. It's REALLY REALLY difficult though, :/ I've have a relationship like that once or twice with 2 friends of mine.
EXOMimin #5
D: angel-ah.... :'(
well, I would say it takes time
busy urself with other things/hobbies so your mind would be too busy to think about it
I honestly say that it's easier to ignore strangers than the ppl u care for :(
you know you can always talk to me and the gang right? D: you don't have to fight thru this alone :( I'll always be here for you! <3
ANGEL FIGHTING! ^^ <3
Wonachan #6
Time...it helps me...and, being busy (so I won't have time to think)
mambokinoki #7
overcome hatred? well, as for me, taking a deep breathe while in the middle of it and then have a little time alone for yourself and clear your mind. you dont have to think about anything but just relax and clear your mind. more over, think about God. with it, thats how i can overcome my anger or hatred to someone else.
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