Hey guys, Just wanna share my thoughts on SNSD dating. This year, it seemed to be the year of revealing secrets. Especially for Girls Generation. Being the top dogs in the k-town, a lot of people seemed to be keen on barging into their private life. I don't know if SM having those tax issues influenced this, but it's crazy-as. Like 3 members in 3 - 4 months within a year revealed dating. 

But It's not like I oppose them. SNSD are WOMEN now. They're not young teenagers lingering around, tied down to their dreams. They're grown up and obviously, like any of us, would like to experience love and relationships. I don't know why people make a big deal out of it and call them names because excuse you, I'm pretty sure you've been confessed to and accepted some (or the other way around). I know I've been confessed to once, but I rejected him (respectfully of course). It's not like they're going to be single forever and dance in front of their fans for eternity. One day, when all the fame goes and SM gets rid of them, they're gone. SNSD, like any one of us, would like to engage themselves into relationships and have a well-off marriage life. Have kids and explore the world as another person. Not as a singer, not as a entertainer but as a mother and a wife (maybe some of them would be single longer or wouldn't want kids but I don't know, I'm speaking in general). 

A lot of you might oppose. A lot of you might hate SNSD for no reason (or some weird ones. Like: "They're so much tier than (state group)!!!!" "They's fake and I don't like plastic girls!" "They're s!). I would like to take this time to scoff at those haters. 

SCOFF.

Well I know not everyone in this 'almighty' world would love SNSD's music and praise them (like I do), but the thing is, sprouting out comments like that is just plain rude and shows how immature and inappropriate you are to the rest of this damned society. 

So what if they're dating?

So what if they've broken up?

So what if they've gotten another boyfriend?

They're humans like us. It's not like it's unusual for someone to date, to break up and start over again. It's the natural process of love. I'm feel really sympathetic and sad when all these haters look down on these lovely girls and diss them without any sense of respect or sanity. I've just gotten over my stage of being immature but even then, I would never call SNSD s or for any reason (not any group and will never do that). 

GOSH PEOPLE. They've been in the industry for 8 YEARS. EIGHT ING YEARS. 

They've met different people, handsome guys, confessions, fans, haters, support, compliments, cusses and a whole of other things. They've experienced a lot and even I think it's time for them to settle down and find someone that they truly like. It would be awesome if one day, news popped up that SNSD was getting married. I would squeal in joy and cry in pure happiness. But that's just me--

Anyways, back on track. I don't think them dating is wrong. I don't think them having more than one boyfriend in their life is wrong. I don't think their desire to have someone to love is wrong. After all, they sing all of these lovely love songs. If they haven't experienced it yet, then there's no feelings that's poured into singing. With experience, their singing, voice and message seems more realistic. I like if when music has a lot of feelings.

I'm pretty sure it's not only SNSD who's dating. I would like if you all who's reading this to appreciate the idols and though it's hard at times, appreciate them for whom they are and even when they're dating, don't go around cussing at their lovers. For examples, Shinee Jonghyun and Shin Sekyung, though it's passed and they've broken up. When the news arise, fans bashed Sekyung non-stop until her official site had to close down. I'm pretty sure she received threats from Shawols, more particularly Blingers and Jonghyun had to ing APOLOGIZE. He needed to ing apologize for dating. Excuse you, what right do you have over someone else's life? It's not fair.

I know some fans have very strong affection and attraction to their idols, but tone it down a bit please? Everyone wants to experience life to the fullest and it's just sooo 'surprising' that dating/love is one of those experiences needed to live life to the fullest (sarcasmsarcasmsarcasm.).

To all fans, kpop or not, please look out and upon your idol in a warm way. Appreciate them for who they are and their desires to become 'human' and 'normal'. No matter how heartbreaking or hard it is for you when the news get out, breath in and out and put out a positive comment. You can whine about it, but bashing is a NO-NO. Imagine when your idols read about it? How sad, heartbroken, down and unappreciated they feel? When even their own fans can't support them, who will? Without fans, idols are nothing. Without fans, idols wouldn't shine. But fans should know where their place are.

And myself, though a hardcore fan of EXO from their debut, is still trying to factor things in when useless rumours comes about. I know that like me, EXO would like to be in relationships. I hope that the public will receive it well and for the sasaengs to stop and change their ways. EXO has some of the worst fans and sasaengs, but their fandom is very supportive and passionate. I hope everyone whom bashes, critics too far and stalks the idols non-stop would stop and think for a while.

"Would I like it if someone else did/said this to me?"

I'll leave that question for you guys to think about.