BOYFRIEND--> Is it required for all girls teenagers.??

I wrote it to express and know what can you say about this guys.! As you read the title, being a girl teenager is it a requirement to have a boyfriend?? In my age now i didn't mind if I don't have a boyfriend. Im not disperate to have one and i don't need to force someone to be my boyfriend. And also im not a bitter single. I can say im better alone. When i have time, me and my girl friends hanging out. Theres a two question they always ask on me. "do you have a boyfriend now?" followed with "why don't you have a boyfriend yet.?" and jesus it irritates the hell out of me when they always ask me that.. As if its very easy that i can buy it in a mall. And then one time i ask them. Why? is it required to have a boyfriend.?? They answered me that Having a boyfriend is like fullfilling your teenage life. Its like, if you don't have one your not in. It is a part of being a teenager. Its natural to have one. But what the hell.?? So the word teenager and boyfriend is connected now.?? Its just like its very easy for them the word LOVE. Its because you like him, his a good sh0t and you have the same likings you can say it is love and you want him to be you boyfriend.? Sometimes it comes in my mind. Why in this year of my life i don't even have a boyfriend?? All of my 4 bestfriend already try a dozen. Then me n0thing.? I have a suitors but i don't find them interesting and exciting. Sometimes i feel like envy because all of my friends have a partner and i always feel being an outcast. But its just s0metimes when their partners are ar0und. And i feel that i don't need a boyfriend my friends are enough for me. They make and feel me happy like a boyfriend can do. I think thats the reason why i didn't bother to have a boyfriend. I think im just more matured than them. If i try to have a boyfriend i will make sure that its because of love. Not because of what they say "fullfilling your teenage life" for me LOVE is sacred. I don't want to play it. WHAT CAN YOU SAY SINGLE LADIES.??

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yeahdobigo #1 Apr 11, 2014 05:41:04

I can relate to what you says too<3 you go guurrll, we all the single ladies ^^ even though sometimes I always feel like having one but I don't think its necessary. :)

NTK-panda #2 Apr 6, 2014 05:06:52

I can relate to you what you just wrote and i totally agree with everything you said.
It is nice to know that I'm not the only girl in the world who is like that.

infinitaestic #3 Apr 6, 2014 05:02:59

Yes I agree wif you my buddy !! I already have real friends to fulfill my time and a shoulder to lean on. I didnt get why a lot of my classmates like to have a boyfriend I dont get at all. Im not interested (maybe
Because Im
Classified as nerds)

Until I become rich and famous the. Will
I consider it keke

taylabunny #4 Apr 4, 2014 14:37:06

Loads of Teen girls these day have weird ways of thinking.
My friends do this to me as well and I just answer like this:

I don't have time for a guy right now and plus I don't like anyone
So whar's the point going out with someone I don't like then breaking up a couple days later
because you don't like eachother very much?
It's just silly.

madhatter007 #5 Apr 2, 2014 21:56:21

Take it from someone a bit older, haing a boyfriend is not fulfilling your teenage life. If you date while you're a teenage then fine but it's okay to not date as well. You're still young so you have time for all of that. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders so really all I can say is, it's not fulfilling your teenage life. Dating is what people do when they're ready for a relationship (of at least that's what it should be). If you're not ready for that then you're not. Don't force it and don't let people make you feel like you're missing out on anything because you're not.

kpoperz #6 Apr 2, 2014 20:00:41

I totally agree with u. Love is not something that we play with but something that we live with. Maybe it has become as a mindset these day that having a bf while u still teenagers is a must eventhough u not really 'LOVE' that guy. Most of my friend was like that. Find a BF just for a fun or bcoz of trend. Hmmm..what is LOVE actually to teenagers???