Sharing experiences

Have you ever been confused abour your uality? If you have, did anything change?

I want to exchange experiences ^^

 

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hahasoshi
#1
I was...while I was growing up.
But now I know for sure what I am and what I am not.
Although, uality is not something one would want to put under a certain label...but it's what we end up doing 99.99% of the time.
Try to experiment. If you've experimented and are still confused, try to go with whatever makes you happy or feel more comfortable the most.
Coiste #2
Not confused...I'm biual, but definitely prefer girls, so much that many would even just assume I'm straight. uality is a spectrum, so I think it's normal to feel how you feel...rather than being confused, I would say you're “having a hard time finding something to identify with". Of course, people can come to realize their uality, and experiment or whatever, but in the end, uality is not learned...I don't think it can change. However, that doesn't mean you can't be straight but be in love with someone the same gender, or gay but with a different-gendered partner. Love knows no gender, and preference is just that- one can always make exceptions. Trying to label yourself can be hard, so I hope that you're emotionally in tact. You could join a support group or online community to talk about it, and you've always got AFF (you've been gone a while until now, I've missed you ^^). And even if you're questioning your uality, there's no need to label it :)