Random : My Own Theory - Being Alone [13/1 '14]

I don't even know why  I'm writing this. I just have nothing to do. Like the date says, this 'theory' was written on January 13th. This is not really important but it could be useful.


Being alone doesn't mean you're lonely. Sometimes other people are just comfortable being alone, on their own, thinking by themselves in their own minds without having any needs to talk to other people.

Though other people are alone because they can't interact with others. Either they're overly shy or whatever, and maybe it hurts them from the inside. Wanting to have friends but you just can't. These type of people are waiting to be reached by others, someone that's nice enough to care about someone else's loneliness and maybe, took them out from the darkness of being lonely.

Despite being lonely, you must be cautious about the people who lend their hand for you. Are they truly wanting to help you, or just want something in return, or maybe even worse? Like, wanting to make you got wishful thinking and then they'd crush you, loving the hurt look in your eyes.

Those who are sociable probably thought that antisocial people were either truly a loner or a coward for not taking action first in to making friends. But people have different personalities. Me, as one of those that can't interact with other people properly, don't pity myself. I know that me myself is a coward. That's why I need a friend that would want to help me. And now, I haven't found the right person that'll help me get through with this difficult-to-be-social personality of mine.

Well, I do have friends. Quite a lot, if I think so myself. But, it doesn't feel right. It's like, I'm the only one that has no 'best friend,,, 'true friend' or whatever they call it. I won't do this, but if I ask them, "Will you choose _____ or me?" I'm sure they'll answer their other friend instead of me.

We, humans, are social creatures. We need to interact with people. Being independent is good, where you can live by your own earnings. But interaction is still needed. With whoever it is, co-workers, colleagues, or maybe family. 

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creativegirl013
#1
I think about this subject quite alot. Very deep and I can relate to a lot of what you were saying though!
trryst
#2
NOW I UNDERSTAND WHY.
Actually I felt like this as well. I meant, someone has picked my best friend over me; and it's frustrating. Psstitstenabutdonttellher.