Me too, I've feel those kind of feelings before. And i think maybe it was just a simple crush that's why i doesn't feel hurt anymore after seeing them together for a lot of times.
Same thing happened to me. For a while i didnt get the chance to talk or hang out with one of my closest friends. Trust me the only feeling i have is a friendly one. But meanwhile my friend became close to other people. The first time i saw them hanging out, i was hurt a bit, you may call it a bit of jealousy over a friend because i didnt get enough time to spend with him. But after a while, i got used to the idea of sharing my friend with other people and i even became friends with the other person.
So its pretty normal, when you have a friend you also get a feeling of exclusivity over that friend, that they are only your friend and you dont want to share them with other people. Same goes over people you like.
I guess it was a crush. Let's say that they're really together and it hurt you when you saw them together. But then you don't feel anything at all or it doesn't hurt you anymore because it was just a crush and crush come and go. I wouldn't say that it was love because, it would hurt you everytime you see them together, and because you couldn't accept that fact that they're together. And let just say that you accepted that they're together but it will still hurt you and you'll need times to get rid of that feeling.
I think u just want to be her friend or attention that u felt jealous all of a sudden but then as time goes by u think u dont need it any more so its ok if u see together.. hehe
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