What should I do?????

What should I do, when there is a guy who I use to know but not that close, Said to me that he likes me??

But right now he’s in relationship with someone else...

He said that his girlfriend is older than him (noona)...

He was 22 (1992) while the girl is 25 years old...

He said that lately he keep argue with his girlfriend because her father asking her to get married with someone her father choose.

So the girl only has to make decision.

And he asks me “what about me, then? Shouldn’t I start a new life?” that is what he said.

And he said that he likes me since the first time he saw me and get to know me. But we’re not that often keeping in touch or hang out.

But he still with his girlfriend now and he want me to be his scandal. Like a secret girlfriend.

Isn’t that like he cheated on his girlfriend while they’re still together???

But he said that he serious on me...

I’m speechless when he said that...

I’m not that kind of person who desperate to have in relationship even though I’m single right now...

Try to look at my facebook...I have many friends (boy + girl) and there is none picture of a boy who seems like my boyfriend...

When I didn’t answer his text, he kept texting me and asked why I’m being quite.

But in this situation, i kinda can see his personality...

He have problems with his girlfriend and he even said that he still loves her, but he already think about finding someone else to replace her...

What do you guys think about it???

IDK WHAT TO DO...

I don’t think that I can give commitment all over the sudden if I don’t have feelings toward him....Beside, I’m not a person who will accept someone who still in relay and want to find someone so fast just because don’t want to be alone...

Isn’t when you love someone, it’ll take time to heal the wound???

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Ayoitsnazilla #1
okay so if i was in that situation i would do my research. yes it may sond weird but do your research on him and his relationship history. how many people have he dated how many people did he like? you never know if he ccould turn out to be a player. i feel like he just wanna start some drama so he could get you attatched to him and feel like a baller cuhs two girls are fighting for him.
but over all if you dont like him dont get with him. trust me it wont be worth it. you can learn to love him but what if he gets with you breaks up with the currtent gf and he'll do the same thing to you behind your back?
do your research or ask someone to help you so you dont look suspicious.
if he says he still loves her then why did he say he wants to get with you.
i asked my sister.. hehe
my sister said:
if he said he liked you from the beginning and you guys werent close and didnt get to know each other well and still say he likes you tell him to off because he it kinda saying that he likes you for the looks.
hope i help and my sister
if you need any help message me if you want(: always here for you(:
hopelesswriter #2
well, i may not be in the right position to give my opinion but since you're asking for it...
for me, i'd say stay away from that dude...
what he's doing is disrespectful to you, to his girlfriend and to his ownself...and i can't take that kinda guy seriously or have any respect.
if he really like you, he could've at least end it cleanly with his girlfriend..but it seems to me, he's just looking for a distraction...n he wouldn't even decide for himself...what he really wants.
sorry...just my opinion...><...i could be wrong since i don't really know him, his girlfriend or you...but that's just the impression i get from the story~
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