what if your female friend says she love you?

Well...

What to begin?

Let start with the basics first.

 

Well... I have 2 friends. Let just suppose that those 2 are A and B.

I first met friend A in grade 8 and later met friend B in grade 9.

When I first made friend with A, she and I got along really well. We always gossip like the normal girls do, having girls talk about boys, and often went shopping together. In one word, we are BFF.

Later when we were in grade 9, we met this new girl B. She just moved from the province and couldn't seem to have anyone welcoming her. So Friend A and I kinda let her in our group of hangouts.

About a month later, she told us that she is a bit different from us, she is lesbian. At first, it was a bit surprising to hear that from her. Because back then friend A and I were just too naive ( not that we are not now), we didn't know lesbians do exist. But afterall, we still accepted her in our group. Because lesbian is also human, right?

 

And now since grade 9, there is no mention of it ever again. We know she is not like us but she is still our friend.

Later in grade 10 and 11, we rarely raise the topic up and even if we did, it would be so subtle so she wouldn't be upset. Because A and I don't want B to feel sad because we can't afford to make our BFF cries.

 

Slowly, we entered grade 12 together. Things were just going smoothly. and ofcourse that was until,

"I like someone." B said to A and I during our recess time.

A and I raised our eyebrows wondering who the girl our BFF likes is.

"how is she like?" I asked her.

And she went on and on about her. We didn't really paid our best but one sentence catched our interests,

"I have loved her for 3 years."  That comment made A and I coughed so badly.

ofcourse, who wouldn't? 3 years were the time we have known each other.

And she went on and on about the girl.

Everyday, she would always talk about her.

and by now, A and I were more than sure that she was actually in love with one of us.

Because of the so many things of the girl she mentioned was a lot like us or if even true, that is exactly our personality. (A and I are BFF so we acts similiar, think similair and our characteristics is so much alike.)

And most importantly, because when A and I talked about guys we were interested in, she looked angry, jealous.

and the kind of looks she gave us was the tender love struck eyes that most guys give to their lovers.

 

And more than this, she would always get all loud when spotted seeing us with males. We were more than sure about this. B either love one of us or loved us both.

Right now, A and I were afraid she might confessed. Because we don't want to reject her.

we have been friends for somewhat 3 or 4 years. we don't want to ruin this friendship with just this things. because otherwise, we would have already done so when B confessed she is lesbian.

 

We don't discriminate her. But A and I are not like that. We just love men too much to even look at girls.

So if B were to confessed, we wouldn't know what to do.

Because we don't want to upset her nor do we want her to cry because afterall, B is also our BFF.

 

So what should we do about B?

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BaeJoohyunIsMyBae #1
If she confesses then tell her truth. I am kind of in the same situation as B, I love my best friend. I really want to confess. The answer I would want to hear is the truth. I would want to know if you are intrested in me or not xD. Hope this helps ;)
SSnowwy #2
Just tell her that you don't love her the same way she loves you. Don't try to be all "I need to get a boyfriend fast before she confesses to me." because if you get a boyfriend just for that, poor boy will only be a tool for you and that's not cool at all, feelings shouldn't be played with.

Just be honest, say you're still friends. If she's the one to react badly then... I'm sorry. I've seen a similar thing happen and fortunately, the two girls are now back to being friends, but they did go through a moment they didn't speak to each other. They were forced to talk to each other again thanks to friends and if not, they wouldn't have made up ever. And that would have been sad because both of them were saying they missed each other.
hannaKwon #3
Both of u better get some boy b4 she confess.. Or start hinting that u r interested to some guy or something.. Or start hinting that u r not gonna love her more than a bff..
AptonKey #4
Reject her slowly.

"I don't know right now. I'm so confused"
"Wait a second"

And make it sort of explicit. That you like only guys.

Coming from someone BI. This is really the only way.
Wonachan
#5
If B really loves one of you, rejecting couldn't be avoided. And after that being like before is out of the question. Just be truthful to her, what will be done will be done. You don't like girls so you can't do anything about it. Let's just set your point straight that you don't like girls and hope she won't confess.