Friends (????)

Ok here's the thing...i've this one friend....idk whether she's my friend or not i'm not even sure...
so anyways....we've been friends for years but after we got into high school...she changed....
Eventhough she changed..i've always presume her as my friend...but one thing i hate is that...she only came to me or talk to me when she's having problems and i mean ONLY when she had problems..
she would complaint to me this and that and being the kind friend i am i just gave her advice or even help her...and after her problems solved...she totally and i mean TOTALLY ignores me!!!
i always greets her saying "hey" but she just fasten her foostep and went away...she hates to see me around!!! she always trying to get away went i'm around.../sigh/ when i smile she even rolled her eyes and gave me an annoying look!!! so i'm writing this to ask your opinions......what should i do???
if i ignore her..people will think that i'm arrogant or something but i'm not....any opinions??? should i just ignore her...or should i try to befriend with her???? T^T


EOTTOKKHAE?? Q~Q

(sorry for posting this...but i really need your opinions..)

 

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--Dae_jaE--
#1
Dear, if she came to you just when she had a promblem, you help her~

No need to force someone to be our friend because we don't need someone like them...if they need help, just help~

We help people because we need to, because we thought them as a friend and that's her decision either she want to be your friend or not..

There's a lot of people around and pretend nothing happen...it won't hurt you~^^

Unnie have friend like that, and it hurt a lot but unnie aways endre it because she's friend...

You can try to ask like what unnie told you before~^^

And dear~ /pat you/ unnie will be happy if you just ignore it...you 're nice because you help her without asking anything in return~
ausername_
#2
well... i don't really know about friend... but i believe that friend is not that kind of people who come when in need.

like, maybe you're the only one of her friends who willingly hear her rambles and give advice, asked for help and such, but after that she left. is that really friend?

Just ask her, have a talk with her about that. We'll never know if we don't ask, right? Maybe she has her own reason.