It's all so simple yet complicated
So bored, and I want to help a friend. :)
Let me start with this: It hurts to lose friends.
But there are many other things that hurt far more than that.
Wanna know a few? Here:
--When a really close family member/loved one dies so suddenly.
--When you find out that your entire life was a lie.
--When you realize that the guy you've loved for so long will never love you back.
--When you try so hard to bury memories of someone breaking your trust yet that person keeps coming back.
And so many more... There are so many things we should all be worried about, and be even afraid of...
But what does it mean when losing a friend equates to all of the things mentioned above?
Honestly, IT . And that isn't made up. It really does happen, and when it does, expect chaos and discord.
But it more for the person who appears to be the bad-guy in these situations where there's a friend-vs.-friend in a group issue, cause apparently, people nowadays jump to conclusions so much and make their own generalizations to certain situations to the point that they fail to see the other end.
They see one side and BOOM! It's all over, ladies and gentlemen, and we have a side. That's it. Bull.
Surely, being friends they could absolutely claim and say "I know her well enough, she made the mistake." Oh come on! Really? Back to elementary, are we?? Have you ever been in her head? Have you ever even taken HALF A MINUTE to stop and think, 'have I treated her the way I treated the others?'? Really?
Do you think you know what she goes through every day and night? In her home, in her outside activities, even within her own mind, DO YOU KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON? The answer is no. No. You don't know anything about her. You don't know who she really is and who she wants to be. You don't know what she thinks of the words coming out of your mouth. You don't know half the things she wants to say because you're too insensitive to care and too blind, and you're even taking sides!
She's not stupid. She can see things, maybe even things she doesn't want to see. And it's those things that brings her to tears (almost), knowing that she trusted air. She trusted something that's almost inexistent to begin with.
She always knew her friendship with people such as yourselves would come to this, she just didn't expect it to happen this quickly, and probably, this shallowly.
I don't know, maybe it's just how I saw how my friend was being treated the other day that lead me to write this down. It's just annoying how her friends treat her now just cause she missed a few outings with them... It to know that some people really would find it so easy to replace a part of their group just to prove a point.
What exactly are they trying to prove? Well, who cares now. If that's how they treat a "friend" of theirs then so be it.
Please comment if you guys know what to do in a situation like this so my friend would know what to do with her group of friends! She's very irritated with what they're doing to her, and it would really help us both if you would suggest solutions :)
P.S. Do not suggest "TALK TO THEM" because those people avoid her. XD Just so you guys know. Thanks!
So to the girl who inspired me to write this, thank you. :) Love you . XD >:D<
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