Infinite Myungsoo/ L dating

This is really sad. I am a huge fan of Myungsoo and i can't imagine what he must be going through. This is the reason why idols don't admit that they are dating. I think it’s high time for us fans to accept the fact that they are human beings too and they need someone to love and vice versa.

Idols have crazy schedules and they work so hard even to the point of falling sick, isn't it good that they have someone to care and support them through out? You think Myungsoo has inspirits for that? Are you seriously believing that your bias is going to date each and every one of his fan? Just because they are an idol, does that mean that we own their life? Just because we buy their albums, does this mean that they are ours? If singers/idols from other genres can date and live their life as they want, why not Kpop idols too? why are they different? aren't they humans too just like us? 

From what i read from the articles, i feel that they have been separated by compulsion, maybe not too but does this give us any right to hurt the ones we love? If we love Myungsoo so much then why are we hurting him by doing all this? Shouldn't we support him instead? Isn't that what a true fan would do? Supporting their bias in whatever they do? 

Yes, i admit i was shocked when the agency confirmed the news and i did go , "WHAT?" but that was because they denied it at the first place. Yes, like most inspirits, i realized that they were dating. But can we blame the agency for denying? Hasn't the past taught that the sales of the idols who admit that they are dating drops down? Yes, it is selfish but wouldn't an agency want to protect that?

Just the other day, we were celebrating Infinite's win at the MAMA, why so much hate then? This is not the right time to date? Myungsoo is not a kid, hell, even kids have a love life this days, so why not him? You say, they should not have denied the truth in the first place? Yes, i admit that i agree with you but look what happened even after they denied.

You say that the girl is ugly, plastic, that she should have known the outcome of dating, that she should not blame the inspirits but can we control whom we love? I am not a fan of her, i did not even know who she is until her dating rumors with Myungsoo but as long as Myungsoo is happy, i am happy. Yes, i am a huge fan. Yes, he is my bias. But just like any of us has the liberty to choose whom to date or whether to date or not, even he has the right. What if he is an idol? He is just as human as us. It is his choice and as his fans, we have to respect that. How can we hurt the people that they love? A true inspirit will not hurt the girl that he loves, a true inspirit will support him no matter what. This scandal is going to bring a lot of negative effect on Myungsoo. From the media, to the agency and even to his life, so we need to support him. Inspirits let us show that we are a matured fandom, let us show that we love him no matter what. Let this be sent as a message to Myungsoo and his agency that we will support the one we love and protect him from those who don't. 

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khurui
#1
100% Agree.