CHARACTERISTICS OF HEROINES THAT I HATE1

Okay, so everyone appreciates drama in a sroey right? the problems is, some times a heroine does some thing that is TOTTALLY unnescecary or simply annoying and unjustifiable, may it be in drama or fan fics, I just wanna share my thooughts,

 

ONE SIDED LOVE

- I think this is very common and the things I absolutely hate that happens is when the main characters is

1)  uselessly pining - he/she is not doing anything in his/her life but long for that person.

It even becomes more annoying if the person that is being loved is TOTALLY UNWORTHY a.k.a a douche, a player, etc especially if that person is mean to the main character,

Don't get me wrong, YES. you can love a person in secret. BUT when I see and read a character that trashes himself by drinking or I just wonder HOW CAN THAT PERSON LOVE YOU BACK IF YOU CANT TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF??

 

2) Doesn't give up - yes, this may sound mean, but its true, sometimes one should just learn to try and not force things that cant happen,

I hate it more when the main says "he doesn't deserve you" or "why cant you see me" you have to understand, its not about DESERVES who, its about who that PERSON picked. No body is a TROPHY that has to be "deserved" to get.

LOVE

1) Unworthy love - yes, no body can decide who is worthy of who right? BUT we can however help ourselves by not sticking to some one who makes us feel like -cause this mentally will stay for a long time..

ex the guy is awesome like smart, rich, tall, handsome and you think you are "ordinary" but you still want that person, THAT is wrong already because we should not encourage anyone to think that he/she is ordinary

ex in own of my favorite Drama  Playful kiss (It started with a kiss in Taiwan and Mischievous kiss love in Tokyo in Japan)

I am so frustrated by the fact that the girl was portrayed to be so stupid and plain and just urrgh, the guy is awesome and all she does is hang on to him for YEARS. thats okay I suppose, but it would have been better if she had gotten to experience life with another guy instead of loving just one guy who treated her like crap. i have mixed feelings for this show sigh

2)Sacrifice- If you love some one, you would give up something for them. True, but please don't over do it. like make the main character choose between his/her job or dream for that person.

Like are you serious? How could you make some one choose between that? that is so unfair. you worked hard for your job only to lose it this way? isn't that selfish? what is more irritating is if the other character lost more than the other. 

FORGIVENESS

1) Douche - the love interest is just mean to the main character but is forgiven easily,

what happened to groveling? I just find it unfair that a simple hug or kiss or a statement could make it all go away. I mean why are we encouraging women to just take what ever is done to us? ESPECIALLY if that person said something really hurtful or hit you. DO NOT CONDONE BULLYING PPL physically or emotionally.

2) Bad guy vs Good Guy - I am waiting for a drama that has a good guy as the lead and not a rich douche who makes the girl cry all the time. seriously unhealthy people.

4) Bully - usually the main is poor so she bullied a lot WHY CANT SHE STAND UP FOR ONCE HUH? ex. who us watching HEIRS?

honestly I don't like the character of [Park Shin hye here (she is so pretty( because like Lee Minho said "

"yes, You don't fit with me, why? It's not because you hurt my pride, It's not because you mentioned my problems to hurt me- but because I took the COURAGE for you, yet you, did NOTHING for me" 

She lacks the spunk and the feistiness of the characters we love. all she did was hide behind her "Knight in Shinning Armors" I mean, Lee Minho carries the weight of their relationship, he is the one who chases, initiates everything about them- she just gives up and cry. 

 

WHAT IS UT WITH THE CRYING?

I hope we get to see a girl who is actually rich and ditsy NOT Y for a main for a change.

KRYSTAL is my favorite character in heirs. she seems the most genuinely made character. she comes off mean but she is actually sweet and loyal she is just brought up in wealth but never bullies

 

SORRY for ranting PHEW

Thoughts?'

TELL ME, WHAT DO YOU HATE?

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Stickythings
#1
ALL OF THE ABOVE! I also despise the damsel in distress fics :/ oh god and just so much more. What ever happened to the Amazonian power house woman!? oh that's right, it's just fanfiction T___T can't get my hopes up too much...oh yeah and when was the last time I read such a female character in a ing book? Mists of Avalon is the only book I have read that portrays women as complex individuals...sigh sigh sigh.
TheChuglyOne
#2
Some of these that you hate are very real in life though OTL

Like the sacrifice one. Many people have to chose between their careers and love - especially idols. You move to different places, go to different colleges, etc. There's so many people who said they've had to choose. But I'm not sure if you're talking about an ultimatum or what.
But sometimes, people do deserve better. If a guy is horrible to a girl, he doesn't deserve her. There a million things like that, but I agree a body isn't a possesion, but it all boils down to actions and personalities.

This is just my opinion though OTL