RIP...

Actually death has been around me since I was young, grandparents, uncles, aunt, cousin, neighbours, parents' friends, friends' parents... But what can we do? *sigh*

I know personally that just trying to remember the times you had with that person and trying not to dwell what could have happened definitely helps me.
Did I tell you a kid at my school committed suicide a few weeks ago? Dark dark time for everyone >.<

Well my grandma passed away about 5 years ago and to be honest you never really get over death but I find that by remembering the good things about the person is a good way to deal with death even though it is extremely difficult to think positive I found tht this is the one of the best ways because if you really sit down and think about it tht person would want u to be happy and have a good life :/

One of my close friends died last year~ Its still hard to believe for me~ But at some point you'll just start to accept it~ i can say that it doesnt get much easier you might just get used to the absence~

I lost an uncle when a was 11, my grand-mother when I was 12 and another uncle not even a year ago. The first one was something between suicide and an accident (even the police doesn't know), the second one as from illness and age, and the third one was from cancer.

You learn to live with it. They may be gone, but the memories are still there, and they will live as long as someone remembers them. I lost people that sadly, I wasn't that close of, but it's always painful. Some deal with it better than others. As long as you don't let the pain control your life, you can deal with it as you wish and take as much time as you can. It just heals itself with time, even if it leaves a little scar.

My dad died 3 years ago. It was the strongest pain I have ever felt in my life. The pain doesn't get any better. You just get stronger.

My dad died when i was 9. I would say i learned to live with it. It never goes away completely, but you get used to it to the point that it doesnt bother u anymore. :)

My grandpa died in July basically of a broken heart. It was 1 year ans 22 days after my grandma died. I wasn't very close to them but it was sad. I saw his body and I don't ever want to see or go through that again. But it does it better. Plus they're together now! And he's not sad or in pain anymore.

I know sometimes I have thoughts like that too except.... I've never had something like that happen to be before...... Now I'm very aware of death.. I fear death but then again death is something you should always open your arms to when it's the right time.

Dealing with death is as hard as cheating it. The only way is to let time do it's magic. It will take time for your heart to once again go back to its normal self. But to mend a broken yet sorrowful heart, the key is to move on. For what happen in the past is the past; you cannot change it. Keep the memories you want forget horrifying things but in the end you must move on. If not you will be stuck in a ditch of which your own fears and shadows haunt you and no one will be able to save you except yourself. It is hard to move on but this is the only way; the way down the positive road; down the tunnel to a brighter future. Look on the bright side they are in a better place; one where they don't need to live in the harsh reality we call life and in addition they will always be with you not; in your heart as they are dear to you.

Talk about it. Replace the bad memory of them being gone with good ones of their life. You want to remember them as they were, not as they are.

Oh....I usually hole up in my room and fangirl over Dongwoo.... on a happy note, I SAW INFINITE YESTERDAY