So There's This Guy...

3 words. Oh my gosh.

Soooo...there's this guy in my class that I really like. The only problem is:

We're really good friends. 

And I know that it might not seem like a really big problem but it kind of is! I feel like i ruined our friendship.

Yes ruined (as in past tense :P) 

Why, you ask? 

 

I told him that I like him.

 

It was at our school's fall festival and I just flat out told him.

I have no idea why but he kept bothering me about who I liked so I told him. 

-.- I told him I didn't want it to be awkward and he said it doesn't have to be...

but we didn't even talk for the rest of the night. 

We would like, lock eyes with each other a couple of times but... I don't even know anymore. 

He said that he felt bad because he told me who he likes 

(And he did) but I told him to just forget about it and asked if we could go back to normal on Monday and he said yes. 

Why did I tell him? -.-

Anyways! I was wondering what you guys would do if you were me? 

Any suggestions, comments? (Questions?) lolol

Thanks for listening to me rant about my lovelife(?)

Bye!! 

-Bunny

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Minah07 #1
few serious things each person would undergo ^^
this might have gone affected you alot~ though never get these things far serious or it'll give you stress~~
just give a simple smyl for everything , tommorow might become a better day~~ x)
YGFanGirl21 #2
Okay, not gonna lie... I've been in this situation.

And it .

I was (literally) in love with my best friend for 4 years. And in the beginning, he felt the same way. Then things changed, he moved on, we stopped talking for 2 years, and I've had this hole in my heart ever since. We finally got to be friends again last year, and things were great until those feelings came back. And, once again, things got worse when he decided back in June to say he waas in love with me and then take away my first kiss. Which, a week later, he told me it was a mistake and none of it should've ever happened. We talked for the rest of the summer, but now he's away at college and we haven't spoken for a few months.

And I still have this hole in my heart.

I guess I'm telling you this because I would say if you can, don't follow your heart on this one. From my experience, it hurts a lot. If he doesn't feel the same way, not only are you losing a crush, but you're losing a best friend.

Then again, maybe he isn't like how my guy was.

I guess I just have to say: guard yourself. Distance yourself for a little bit. I don't wish for anyone to go through what I've been through. It led me to some pretty dark thoughts and places.

If you need to talk about it more, let me know! I'm hear to listen :)
foreverdaragon #3
i guess you should just act like it didn't happen.. something similarish happened to me
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