Concern

Raising my concern...


I don't know why but I feel even more concern towards my friend, Vivian which is pronounced as Viv-yan. You may heard of her from my posts before and or may not - technically, Vivian used to be really quiet and I didn't know even know I was friends with her since she was the quiet ones in our group while I was one of the two people or three people who are the loudest - we aren't loud infront of the teachers or other places, just the loudest in our group. Ever since my two used-to-friends and another friend who I am still closed with moved or transferred schools since for education purposes - Vivian had started to become the complete changed from one of the quietest people to the loudest people.

She's lately attention seeking especially towards her ex-boyfriend's friends. She did said to me and my other friend - Jiyeon_84 - that the best friend of her ex-boyfriend asked her out. I mean, can I really believe that when that best friend isn't even speaking to you at school anymore and doesn't have signs that he likes you or have asked you to date him? It's unbelievable.

So my friend and I decided to shrugged it off and acted like we believed her.

But somewhere this week, like lunch break. She told me a confession that is raising my corcern for her. Her words was:

"My brother's girlfriend dump him."

I asked why with a shocked face. Her little brother named Cole (not really his name) is dating this girl who is always get misunderstood as a boy because she has medium hair that is cut like a boy and the way she wears her clothes make it even more believeable that she's a boy and especially she joined the football academy which even adds more to the fact that she might be boy but she isn't. She's a girl. She's a SHE.

Okay, enough.

"She dumped Cole because of me."

Like seriously? Your brother's girlfriend dumped him because of you - so you are the reason why his girlfriend doesn't want to date your brother anymore. And after she said that, she was grinning at me like she was proud of it. How can you be proud of it? Aren't you supposed to be sad that your brother is dumped because of you?

To add more details, Vivian and Cole are seriously close siblings and practically helps and joke around with each other. They don't hate each other or anything like that.

I asked the reason why that happened and she told me this:

"I was being myself one day and she just dumped him because of it."

I mean it's alright to be yourself but I do understand being yourself is the annoying, nosy, loud and know-it-all person to me. Cole might really like his girlfriend one day, before he knew it, he got dumped because of you. I don't have any objections to be yourself because it is good to be yourself but it is not too good, when that is the reason of the breakup between your brother and his girlfriend.

I just hope Vivian understand and noticed the way she's acting is so fake and just damn annoying. I don't hate her before but I am starting to hate her since she past the point of dislike and is now working to hate.

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NewWorlds #1
Well, I feel like Vivian has personality disorder (I don't know how to call it.. :D) she sounds weird for me.. -_- sorry... :)