So my parents.

My mom told me that when she and my dad were dating, he cheated. On her. The nice woman. He promised her though, he wouldn't do it again, and begged her to stay.

well we're here about 14 years later, and they are unhappily wedded with four children. I'm the burden child. 

So my dad goes on a 'family vacation' by himself in the Philippines for a month, but what I'm wondering is: was he even with his family? There were no pictures of him with them. He wasn't even in the same part if the Philippines his family were in.

instead, secretly taking pics with old classmates which is totally fine but I notice this one girl, always with him in the pictures.

his Facebook status: just married

says nothing about my mother, oh no. It says some other woman from the Philippines. As soon as he realized other people saw this, he deleted it, 

He accuses me of being careless, stupid and all that bull. Me? Careless? Dad, you're married and have had a family for 10 years. But completed our family 6 years ago. And you leave us to go to the Philippines for a month "visiting your family", cheat on mom, then come back? I don't think so. Dad, you're a ing hypocrite. 

All he did was go to the Philippines, cheat on my mother, then come back. 

I can't stand him anymore