[Serious Blog ] HELP WANTED!

   Ok, so I was wondering why I can't seem to snag a guy? Like seriously Im not ugly or anything, but it seems every time I like a guy he likes some really pretty girl.

 Don't get me wrong, Im not even 17 so im not looking for love or anything like that. It is just so hurtful when guys don't pay any attention to you because you don't pound on makeup and were super short or really tight clothing. 

 Like, everybody dose not want to dress like that, is that so hard to understand? I don't want to change myself to get a guy. I want a guy to like me for me , but it dose not look like that is going to happen. 

 Can anyone give me advice lol like seriously , Im getting sick of this. I am young I really don't need a boyfriend or anything. Its just the feeling of being wanted in that way. 

   Help

   

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bap_dae_wifey #1
Thank you everyone, You guys are all right :)
sweetpeachy #2
If he doesn't like you for who you are, then don't waste your time with him. There's alot of fish in the water. And like you said, you're still young. You still have more guys to meet, get close with, and maybe have a crush on too. And who knows? Someone might have taken a liking on you, you just don't notice it. ;)
cheesedaeke #3
Hey,i understand how you feel,but sometimes you dont have to get a guy to like you to feel completely loved.I have experienced being in love and later on i noticed,i was better of without it plus it wasnt the right time(yeah im kinda young too),"I did not fall in love,I fell in love with idea of falling in love."But hey,you'll never know,maybe there's someone who has a crush on you that you dont really notice,someone that just watches you from the sidelines.Hope i was able to help ^^
BBVIPBaby #4
I got a lot of guys attract to me by just being my erted self, but sometime it can go too far and also I talk about boy stuff. When I meet a guy first thing I ask is if they know Naruto and then we start talking, they just like but I don't really like them... Weird... Approach. Ask if they like Naruto. Become one of the boys. Be a little erted and done. But this doesn't apply to everyone.

And don't worry I've actually been through your situation before.
Good luck!
Hwaiting!~
MyDeerLikesBacon #5
Don't have to worry so much. Like you said, you aren't even 17. You don't need a boyfriend yet, just that if those boys dont like you, leave them be. They just don't know what they're missing. HE will come, since I'm still waiting for mine as well XD
lovelost9 #6
sweetheart, if he ain't interested leave it be. I had to learn that crap the hard way, if he wants somebody else, then hey let him go to her. Just be yourself, don't cake make-up on your face, that's just to much and nasty. sorry. but if a guy really likes you, and you like him, then you two can link up if not then just be patient and he will come. I'm still waiting for my knight or my Bias to come sweep me off my feet. lol. but i'm pretty sure your time will come. :)
buxxerfly #7
Maybe it's just this world of AFF members but, I, as well can't get a guy to like me. I mean I always wear long sleeve shirts to school & rarely go out unless with my girl-friends(chingus) & I'm always wearing a bare face everywhere. I mean, I'm 16 & single. I understand how you feel. I also don't want love but atleast a cute crush ? Instead of worrying myself like that I always think of something else to keep me from dating, usually just mess around with my family or distract myself with the 'internet' my true love. lol. Im sorry i'm babbling too much. Anyways. I hope you find what you're looking for ! ^__^
AeroRyuu #8
I feel the exact same way as you. I'm 21 and have never even been close to getting a boyfriend. Don't worry though, everyone has their time. My sister, for example, didn't get a boyfriend until she was in her final year of college!
ichibaes #9
Well, I think that you don't need to get a guy to like you right now. I mean, you said you're not 17 so wait until you become older and then see how it goes. But if you want, you can put just a little makeup for a guy. Just not too much where it ends up making you seem desperate.

OTL I'm probably a horrible helper. Sorry chingu ;;
Lovex2254 #10
As my grandmother says:
"There is no girl who can't get married because shes too ugly. It's only the really pretty girls who can't find someone."
JICHIGO #11
just be yourself. you will be wanted.
Lovex2254 #12
Honey, I feel you. I'm sixteen and I've only been in one, mostly meaningless, relationship. Really, honestly, just be yourself. I know it seems hard, but being single has its perks. Sometimes I wish I was in a relationship, but I do like knowing that I'm going to be liked for who I am. I've liked a guy for two years now and he's my best guy friend. He knows and he only thinks of me as a friend. It hurts, but I know he isn't worth my grievances. Keep being yourself and someone WILL come. "The best thing you can do is find a person who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty...handsome, what have you, the right person will still think the sun shines out of your . That's the kind of person worth sticking with."
yumi143 #13
i was in your position also back in high school. but best way is just not to expect it and be yourself. the guy will unexpectedly be the one you'll be close with.

oh ya, i also stalked a lot of guys. and in the end, the guy i stalked less became my boyfriend.

does this help? i know it sounds like im crapping.
Potaytoes #14
Girl, I feel the same way. And the best cliche I can tell is to be patient. Or maybe there is someone and you dunno, yanno? LOL fightingggg~
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