A rant. Can you hear me out? *puppy eyes*

Hey, have you caught in situation where you chose to pick between two different clique of your friends?

 

So uhm, in my uni I dont really have a group of friend that I always hang out together. And technically among my batch for female there is like two different group. One, like to hang out and eat outside college while the other is vice versa from them. So I happen to be both in both gang cuz I like to went out and do activities for the first group but the second group is where I spazz about my kpop side. LOL. So I always end up torn between choosing group member. Well both group are really not that good in doing group assignment. 

 

So in today class, we were force to make group of 4/5 of mixed genders. So there this one girl from different course I knew from basketball team got into my class. So I guess I feel obligate to take care of her since she is quite shy and doesnt talk much. So somehow me and her then other girl start to take names so we were left with one guy to look for. Then, I went and message this guy, like my best bud in class. So end up he was with someone else in other group. I was like somewhat torn between the other group. And another group wanted me too. And yeah to add, I have trouble in saying No. But in the end everyone got their happy ending and live happily ever after. lol. kidding. Well somehow we manage to work out and everyone have group according to the lecturer's need. 

 

BUT THE MAIN QUESTION, WHAT WILL YOU DO LIKE IF YOU STUCK BETWEEN THESE TWO CLIQUES. I GUESS HURTING SOME IS UNAVOIDABLE AS IT HELLA WORK TO PLEASE EVERYONE. BUT STILL SHARE ME YOUR THOUGHTS?

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MinYoung-ah
#1
The same happened to me at uni! It's our first year so of course it was a little difficult to make friends but with time 3 groups were formed, At the beginning I stay with the out going ones but I realized It was not really my thing so now I hang out with the others and one of them is actually ones of the closest friends I have had :)

Soo XD I will just stay with the group I feel more comfortable with, but still share with others :)
Caribbeanpop17
#2
you can't please everyone unnie, someone will eventually get her....but you can really try to pacify both cliques...it helps if the group act like your siblings/close best friends... :D
TheChuglyOne
#3
I was kind of like that.
I just talked to the people I got on better with OTL
maomeow #4
Whoaaa. chill chill, my hoobae. hehehe :3 be neutral, I mean, if the 1st group asked you 1st (in anything, basically), go with them and vice versa to the 2nd group. It's fair that way I guess. Anyway, fighting! Sem 7 is gonna be tough so, don't let little things like this get in your way ;D
--thetwins
#5
maybe take turn lol XD