Help or advice is HIGHLY requested !!!!!!!

Okay, I don't know what to do...

So there's this guy and I know what you are thinking now but no. He however, looks at me all the time. It's been like that since my school trip to London. 

I went to London last year with school and there was this pretty cute guy who also came along. However, he was one year and one level higher in school than me (here in the Netherlands we work with school difficulty levels). Well, the trip was for people who were supposed to graduate te year after the trip, so it wasn't that much of a surprise. Anyways, I knew nothing about him.

Until. 

We were walking back to our hotel after a long day of exploring London and I went to look for one of my friends and I found her, walking next to that guy and she was talking to him. Turns out, they were very close friends in elementary school. That's how I came in contact with him. 

After the trip however, our contact kind of died and the only kind of contact we have nowadays is saying 'hi' when we cross paths at school. 

After a while, I got invited to a party from one of the girls who also joined the London trip. She was in the same year and in the same level as that guy and they are good friends. We hadn't had contact with eachother until most of the people went home. He sat on the couch, alone, so I went to sit next to him. It was kind of awkward after not having contact for a fairly long time. After the awkwardness was long gone, I saw him hestitating for a moment, but then he put his arm behind me. It was on the railing(?) of the couch but it still looked as if he had is arm aroud my shoulders and from then on, people started saying he liked me. After a while, people started asking if we were dating. Turns out, someone took a photo of us when we were sitting like that. I laughed it away but I still felt a little uncomfortable. 

After that, our contact died. Again. 

However, turns out he failed last year and he also had to go to my leel, which is one level below his previous level. I did not know any of this. Until today. 

We had P.E. and we went to a sportshall. As soon as I walked in I noticed him. Turns out we have P.E. at the same time. It went the same. Polite smile and hi. 

This time however, I saw him looking at me a few times. Well, a few... And it was almost as if he was staring at me with this weird expression. He never looked away or smiled at me when I looked at him. He kept on staring. 

During summer vacation, I never thought of everything that happened last year, but after today, it started bothering me again. I can't look inside his head, so I don't know what he was thinking about when he was staring at me... 

Please, some help or advice ?? Because I really don't know what to do with this...

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fairytaleXuntold
#1
That's quite a tough situation you're in dear, but all I can say here is that either you approach him to just have a little talk in order to clear things up, or you let thing stay like that and it'll be more awkward and confusing on your side.

It wouldn't be too hard to just ask him casually because you two were fairly close back then :) Things really do get awkward at times but the easiest way to clear things up is to talk about it :)

I hope my crappy advice helped ^-^
SungminsKyutie
#2
...when I say I'm young i don't mean like I'm 10 LMAO I'm turning 16 .-. If that makes it any better XD
SungminsKyutie
#3
He's plotting your death. When he wrapped his arm around you? Yeah. He was trying to strangle you. Staring at you? He'd observing where to stab you. LMVAKMDOVNJADNOJ JK OKAAAAY

Uhhh...I don't really know what I want to say, only because Im still really young and what do I know xD. Though I've had this happen to me alot and usually it ends up with the guy just ing me over and leading me on when he didnt like me. ANYWAYS, (I'm too young for love anyways...I have school to worry about)

You can either face him or let it keep going.
If you face him and ask him what's up directly, he'll give you a better answer than anyone can since its himself. Though this option is a little more bold and scary, it saves you the trouble of worrying all the time about what's going on in his head.

If you let it keep going, you're just going to be watching this.

Honestly, I'd find it better if you faced him but then again not everyone is as bold.