♡ How To Attract Your Crush ♡

//coughs coughs// Hello thur. So recently, I've been reading blog posts about girls talking about their crushes and such. And since I posted that blog saying I have over exboyfriends ((yes, not 17.)) Some users private mailed me, saying they want tips of dating or attracting their crushes. I was like lol what uhm idek

But then, I realised, I helped 13 of my girl friends to attract their crushes, and well, they're still going strong, in a cute little relationship. 

Admit it guys, other than loving your oppars, you have crushes too, right? Don't be shy to admit, hahaha~ 

Anyways, I'm just gonna say that I'm not a 'pro' in these love stuffs. I just want to help you guys. Who knows, your crush might turn out to be your soulmate? 

Please don't judge me! >< I'm saying all the how-to's by experience.

((pls ignore the stupid dongwoo gifs))

Okay, so, let's get started!

     

1.) Get the hell out of your comfort zone. I mean, dude! Explore the world a bit. Try something new. Like, if you're a fan of boyish things, go and try shopping for girlish stuffs! You'll looooveeeeeee them! And if you're girlish, maintain it, but try playing soccer or rough sports. It'll make you feel more confident with yourself, mentally and physically. 

2.) Be the one to talk first. Boys are so tired of chasing, since they already know what'll they will when they get the girl. Now, they want to know how to be chased and loved. Say "Hi!" to your crush whenever you walk pass him, with a bright smile on your face. Ask him questions about your studies, and you'll get closer, for sure. And when you do, ask him out! Like, "Hey, there's a new movie that's coming out and I heard it was awsm. Wanna check it out?" and when he says yes, trade numbers! And when he says no, just say, "Oh, really? Naw, that's okay, no worries. We're still gonna see each other~ But I surely am gonna watch all the fun without you!" <- It works, just don't be so exaggerating. 

    

3.) Smile. Smile. Smile. Smile. That softens every guys.

 

   

4.) Be yourself. Be yourself. Be yourself. You don't have to be pretty & prefect to have a guy to like you. Just be yourself. Being fake is such a turnoff!

 

5.) It's alright to flirt a little. //winks//

 

6.) Get to know what's he's interested in. Such as, I once asked my boyfriend ((now ex)), why did he fell for me, and he told me because I was such an awesome soccer player ((which i'm not lol)) and I asked my other ex, he said it's because I'm a fangirl! Hahahaha

7.) Be happy. Eventhough you're feeling really ed up and sad instead, be happy and put your smile on. So, what I'll do to be happy when I'm sad is to listen to songs that pumps me up. I have a playlist, written as 'Happy~'.  

The songs that make me happy are SHINee's Hello, Stand By Me, Dream Girl, Dramatic Blue's Tearfully Beautiful, Infinite's She's Back, Inception, Nothing's Over, IU's Good Day, Girl's Day's Female President, B.A.P's Stop It, B1A4's What's Going On, Hey! Say! Jump's Super Delicate, Mystic White's Mermaid Princess, Teen Top's Be My Girl, No More Perfume On You, Sistar's Loving You, Infinite H's Special Girl, uBeat's Should've Treated You Better and so much more!

That's alot, right? Kekekeke. 

8.) Ask about his day. ((NOT EVERYDAY.)) If he's gloomy, ask him what's wrong. Don't cling to him. Nooooo. Clinging/controlling is a no-no.

9.) Alright, this might work for SOME guys. Not confirmed that all of them will like this. Skinship. Lots & lots of skinships.

  

For light skinships, ruffle his hair while laughing. It's cuteee.

I really love skinships, I don't know why. I have a crush, we're kind of close friends. Lots of people told me that he likes me as well, but no, I won't believe them until I'll hear it from himself. The first time I touched him, I'm rly sorry if this sounds creepy, but I was kind of addicted. We're like a skinship couple, but not an official one. We'd always hold hands, hug each other, rest on each others lap, link fingers and such. 

10.) Believe in yourself.

You're perfect with your cute little quirks. ^^

Goodluck! Comment about the stories about you and your crush, any advices for crushes! Thank you <3

  

Toodles, lovelies! I love Bang Minah, so much rn. And I ship 2Bang; Yongguk & her~

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jastinliu
#1
pffft telling people the secrets of attracting people now?
PurpleSkyLove
#2
Will this work for me ??? hehehe ... Just thinking.
angelily95
#3
Are you just kidding me? I won't do all that ! Never! Maybe the least I can do is smile. Lol
Chanyeol4lyfe000 #4
omg i really needed that you are such a love saver haha thank you wat would i be without you