Real Talk

Ok, so tonight I was thinking about future as I took a long walk with grandma. You all know I don't have a very nice opinion about myself (let's just skip this, alright?^^') and thinking about the future right now it's kind of inevitable I guess.

So, what I want to talk with you is about dreams and how would you like your future husband/wife to be. And just to make sure you don't write only about your k-ideal type, you can tell me about you other ideal type, the one outside k-pop :) 

Read my answer/version below:

I Don't Know Either

So, how do you picture your future husband/wife? :)

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BennieDerHamster
#1
Actually in 10 years from now I don't see myself with a boy by my side.. but if you ask me, I would like a person who would talk and listen to me, a person who is able to surprise me and that would never permit my life to turn into a boring routine, a person who likes confrontation , who would talk about everything, and someone to fight with sometimes, I mean not bad fight but quarrels that end up well. A sweet one, a nice one!
But really now, I would just like to fall in love.. not particular types xD
chanicorn
#2
Well when you think about k-ideal types, obviously mine is Kim Himchan :3 I used to have a very immature, fairytale-like image of what a perfect man would be: funny, kind, speaks all my favourite languages, plays all my favourite instruments (and all those are Himchan). It was really selfish and pretty stupid, but I've learned to look past that and realise the real reason he's my k-ideal.

Himchan carries himself pretty well; he's sociable and can befriend nearly anyone. That is the type of person I try to be, because when I'm around people I don't know, I know it's awkward for them to not have anything to say to me. I want to be able to talk to them and make them feel comfortable even though they're strangers. Himchan is kind and caring, always looking out for people he loves and watching over them like it's his job to. That's also what I wish I could do, but I'm pretty bad at that because I can hardly take care of myself well... But the list goes on.

Though I guess when you put marriage into perspective, I suppose the person I'd like to spend the rest of my life with is a little different? I'm not very picky in that sense... All I hope for is someone who is polite and well-mannered, someone who respects their elders and the people around them, someone who treats everyone kindly and fairly. I guess that's all I could ask for; anything more would be a little too much. I certainly wouldn't want a guy to tell me what he wishes I was like. I don't need romantic dinners or strolls on the beach; just someone to be by my side and remind me that I don't walk this world alone. And besides, all those attributes kind of add up to someone who's at least somewhat like me, and that's more than enough for me ^-^
E_magine
#3
I don't really know at the moment. But thinking about myself and my strengths and weaknesses I guess he would be down to earth, not caring about appearance or intellect so strongly.

He would be generous, a little taller than me and whether he'll be younger or older I cannot say. He will love the Lord, his family and friends and not flirt with other girls.

I would like him to be patient with me and understanding. Someone who can be the spiritual leader and will pray for me regularly as I will pray for him. Someone who is cautious about our relationship so we can go at a steady pace, honest with me about anything and everything. Will initiate conversations with others and despite his outgoing personality he will be drawn to me. He'll like to go on walks, eat ice-cream and like vegemite. Someone that would kiss me on the forehead and hug me from behind when I wash the dishes.

He will be protecting and trustworthy. Be romantic in the things he does whether it's send me texts during the middle of the day or surprise me. The way he will propose will be truly something that will connect to the both of us whether it's in a short story, a picture or something else. He'll write letters as well and he will be happy to write his vowels on our wedding day.

I think that's all I can think of :D
B_ann1
#4
You have a beautiful perception of people, it's admirable :)

I don't have an "ideal type". I hardly believe in those. But if I did and I'd have to choose someone among the current k-pop idols, I would choose Infinite's Jang Dongwoo. A person with a real, contagious smile and laugh. Someone honest, intelligent, patient (with me it's required) and calm (because that someone needs to slow me down).
But above all else, that person only needs to be someone who knows all my imperfections, every single little (or bigger) flaw that I have in me, every mistake I've made and every sin I've committed. Someone who knows all this and still accepts me and loves me because they feel that the good that I have in me is greater and worth all the challenges that my vices will force upon them.
That's it. It's so little, yet too much to ask.
Laydeen
#5
I like your perception of life and how you imagine them to be, how well they might match with you. Aaand, well, to be honest, I've also fantasied about Him, though I didn't give it much thought.
I want Him to share the same hobbies as me, first and foremost; to read the same books, to like the same things. I wish we could match 120% out of 100. Why? So we could have plenty of things to talk about, and never run out of subjects. But at the same time, I wish silence would be comfortable by His side.
I also wish He'd be tall, so I'd have to get on my tiptoes to kiss Him, and snatch the mug of coffee from Him. And, each morning would be meaningful, with Him by my side. You know how everyone wants someone to sleep with? Well I want someone to wake up next to every morning, and feel that my life is complete, that I am happy, because He is worth it. He can make me smile, make me feel loved and the prettiest woman in my worst days.
He doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous, as long as He makes me feel like my place is next to Him, in His arms, to be more precise.
And that's my silly fantasy :)
MoonSungRa
#6
I don't want to get married! O_O Am I weird? >_<