(PLEASE HELP MEH) So I have this cute Hoobae ...

His name is Moon Joonhyung and I went to school with him in elementary school...I never really saw much of him except that he was a cute little boy with chubby cheeks hehe ^^ so yeah...being three years his senior, I never really had much close contact with him except for when I tutored him like once a week for about two months...and that was all. I graduated from there and moved on to middle school. It's now my third year this year and he just started his first year...He surprised me in the canteen one day and not knowing him that closely already, I barely recognised him...and omona, has he grown!! He's nearly taller than me now (and I'm pretty tall myself being a giant at 172cm ㅠㅠ) and called me Eunhye Noona out of nowhere! At first I was like. who are you? And he told me who he was...and we spoke for a little while just kinda..you know...talking about our old school and that and he left and that was it...but it didn't stop there...

whenever he saw me in the hallways he would come up to me and go HEY NOONA really loudly and confidently in front of my friends and his friends...it's kinda weird cause I'm not even that close to him...I barely actually know him and he greets me everytime he sees me...and as the year progressed it continued...

Also, I noticed that whenever his friends spot me behind them, they would glance back at me and then notify Joonhyung that I was behind them and then they would while constantly glancing back at me...he would get all stiff and timid and sometimes he would go ahead and take a backwards glance at me for a split second before snapping his head forwards again. This behaviour really got me suspicious.

And so after a while, I found out that he has feelings for me and I was so shocked...like...sdkhsdjfhasjfdh I didn't know what to do...honestly...I have nothing against him...he's really cute in a childish young way and no doubt handsome...and I know that age shouldnt be a problem and all but he is three years younger than me and I just so happen to have a crush on an older guy already ㅠㅠ

Also, if we were to date, it would cause huge comotion in the school with him having such an old noona girlfriend and all...

I really don't want to hurt his fellings either...

I don't know how to tell him...

otteoke...?

- skaifall

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Myungievip #1 Jul 26, 2013 03:58:50

He sounds like pretty nice guy so give him a chance. But if you don't have feelings for him or you're not ready, ask to be friends. Who knows, you friendship might progress from there ;) haha. Hope this helps!

Rissalovedyou #2 Jul 24, 2013 08:35:43

If u don't have any feelings, just tell him that you don't have feelings for him.. Tell him that you can be friends with him.. Good friend.. Be honest with him.. But it's up to you.. You choose the best choice.. Don't regret it..^^

Skaifall #3 Jul 23, 2013 04:06:45

Thanks for all the advice :'D really...even though I've never met any of you in person (excl twosuns) I feel that we're really close for some reason... Gosh today he sat next to me in an empty bus but was so stiff and didnt say a single word...and I was just there listening to Peter Pan like. What do i do...am I supposed to say something? ahaha Thanks again to everyone who helped ^^

Gennay_ #4 Jul 23, 2013 03:17:53

Give him a chance, ignore everyone at school because it's up to YOU who you date not them, if you have 0 feelings for him at all just tell him, but tell him you still wanna be friend x)

twosuns #5 Jul 23, 2013 02:47:27

i told you to

miahxx #6 Jul 22, 2013 11:14:08

you should give him a chance
fromw what ive read, he seems like a good guy! (:

dont mind what ebveryone else would say
theyre not a part of your relationship^^

Dulcet #7 Jul 22, 2013 09:52:44

Give him a chance, you never know. Age is just a number. :)
If the older guy is paying no attention to you, then forget about him. The older guy is in the same situation as you are with Joonhyung - what would you want him to do? To give you a chance, right? ;)

Violet_Ecplise #8 Jul 22, 2013 09:40:11

Hi there~
So I can't say I have that much experience with love either, but I do think that if you don't feel anything towards him, you have to tell him that. Just get things all clear and straighten out with him because it's not fair to him, to you or to your crush (hey, you never know, right?)
From what I understood, I think he's a really sweet guy so you might want to tell him to be friends first ^^ That way you guys can just get to know each other better without the pressure of dating and stuff
I'm really sorry if this didn't help at all... >.< And I know that other have already said this, but just do what your heart tells you to do~ I swear it's the best thing to do when you're caught in the middle like this... Hwaiiting!

FITFIT #9 Jul 22, 2013 09:27:57

when I was reading this somehow it's looks like a fanfic
I don't know what to say
I don't know about these stuff *(I did not fall in love )
SORRY I CAN'T HELP YOU IN THIS

Dadamato9466 #10 Jul 22, 2013 08:13:34

Lol I would have known the minute his friends started teasing him. that is always a sign. and hmm... Maybe you should just talk to him about all that. I don't think you should care about what the school thinks because it's none of their business anyway, although if you like the older guy more than you like Joonhyung then... Idk try and talk it out. Do u know if the older guy likes you back?

YooHaNa #11 Jul 22, 2013 07:32:53

go for it! well i can feel that this guy is caring and ultimately romantic. kyaaaaa!!! hwaiting!!!

Dohyeonju #12 Jul 22, 2013 07:25:09

O_O_O_O_O__O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O wow

jihan901 #13 Jul 22, 2013 07:20:43

Omg so cute >.<
well love doesn't have limits :)
So I would suggsest you to do what your heart tells you and I agree with exotic_Inspirit_baby xP don't mind what other people think because it's you life and not theirs ^.~ good luck