rant about my skin...
i just really want to make this quick, so excuse any mistakes in grammar.
this has been on my mind for the longest time and i feel i need to vent it out since my parents disagree with me and blah blah blah. okay well. i get really offended when im called dark. im like, really tan and most of my friends are pale. they always compare skin tones and i always end up doing it, even though i know i'm the darkest. they always tease me and say "hahah you're the darkest." or say things like "oh, you're too dark." like, i get really hurt by it.
i'm already using a skin brightening product which is working in both lightening my skin and in treating my pimples. but i guess it's not enough? what do i need to do? bleach my skin? i hate how i feel like i need to have light skin to have confidence in myself. i simply hate it. but it's kind of hard to except myself when all of my bias want a girl with pale skin and a lot of my friends are in love with pale skin and i don't have pale skin.
when i informed my dad about it, he was all like: why can't you just like yourself as is?
and i'm like, it's kind of hard to do when your friends are all like "pale skin is pretty" "you're too dark" "blah blah blah". i'm not ashamed in having tanned skin. i actually like it on a lot of people. but... i don't know... it's like, i like tanned skin but since my friends all have pale skin and find pale skin pretty, i'm starting to like pale skin better... ughhh.
but anyway. i feel like kai... even though im sure kai isn't that dark. he gets offended when people call him dark... like really offended... and i feel bad because he's in a society where pale skin is pretty and ideal... and it seems like the people i'm around in school are like that society...
btw, i'm filipino. and when youre filipino, you can be any different skin tone from pale pale pale to dark as hell. but i guess that's with any race, right? one of my friends had gotten tan over the summer and asked me "did i really get that tan? is it that bad?" and i replied with "you're not even that tan, but i have to admit that you did get a tan. i think it's fine. but if you like it, then it's okay." she then replied "i don't like dark skin, i like pale skin." i was so bothered by that, that i just walked away.
i get that everyone has their own opinions and that you can voice them anytime, but when they say that... i wonder if they think i'm pretty. like, when they say im pretty, do they actually mean it? because... i'm not pale, nor to i have pretty features... so do they actually mean it?
I DUNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO~ -yoseob.
/sighs deeply/ well... that's all i needed to say... thank you for letting me vent. please comment on your opinion, experiences, etc... hopefully it can make me feel better. and hopefully, if you have the same problem, then this helped in some way? thank you... so very much... /ugly whale sobs/
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