'Friendship'

 

 


 

First of all, greeting to some of my new friends out here! 

 

So, I was going through my blog posts, and I saw a blog Katie unni posted about friends and which one I keep. I was going through it and thought it was really interesting. So here I am, here to see what kind of friends I want to keep. So umm, yeah, here are some random posts about how i keep my friends.

How people view on the word 'friendship' is different, some may think it's the most beautiful thing in the world, and some may think that keeping friends are useless. But what I personally think of friendship is that it's the most beautiful thing in the world that can cause you the greatest pain in your life.

Friendship is beautiful. How my friends talk with me, cry with me and laugh with me. Friends are just your second family. But honestly, I've been hurt a lot by friends too. Because you know that friends are just like your family, small things such as the feeling of being ignored can hurt a lot, because you love them so much, and because you feel useless. And as a girl, you all know that you can never forget the pain others have given to you. It's just like a wound, you can never forget, always deep inside your heart.

 

A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.” 
― 
Elbert Hubbard

 

But yes, although they give me such pain, they are my most treasured person in my life. I can never abandon them although they give me so much pain, because in the end, you know that if you lose them, you will be the one in loss, and would end up being hurt.

So I just keep silent, although hurting, just silence.

 

Being in the same school for the last 10 years, I have a lot of insane memories with my friends, and I appreciate it a lot. Just like how I remember one of my friend pooing in the class when I was grade 1, and now he's became so... tough. I mean who knew he would become like that? 

Boys being so short before and now so tall that it feels like I'm talking to a giant. It . i MEAN I WAS THE ONE WHO USED TO TEASE THEM THAT THEY'RE SO SHORT AND NOW, THEY'RE FREAKING REVENGING ON ME THAT I'M THE SHORT ONE. ;A;

Anyways, back to the topic.

 

While being in this ground for 10 years, there were some es that just used me for their marks. Which . They used to backmouth me behind, and when the tests are about to start, they just appear out of nowhere and starts showing their oh-so-beautiful-smile infront of my face asking me to explain some things they don't understand. Oh please ugh.

 

 

So thinking about it, there are some characteristics of a person who I always tend to be friends with;

 

  • Somebody that tend to always be with me when I'm having my emotional issues, although I know that I can be so annoying when I'm so emotional that I just talk crap. But still listens to me and gives me some sensible advices.

 

  • A friend who I can joke with. I don't really be friends with a so serious person who takes jokes very seriously. I hate them. I mean, laugh can't you? Sheesh, I'm just joking out here.

 

  • Somebody I know I can trust. I tent to tell secrets to my friends, so I need them to have HEAVY MOUTH. I don't want my secret to be all over the universe.

 

  • A person with same interest. (I NEED SOMEONE TO SPANZ WITH OKAY? OTL)

 

 

People I can never bare;

 

  • People who leaves me because of their boyfriend . (I mean you can go out with your boyfriend, but if you become too much smooch smooch. ewwww) I've been through this about 4 or 5 times, and believe me, I don't talk to them anymore. They were the one that abandoned me, so why would I care about them?

 

  • People who think they're the best. (ewwww)

 

Okay I'm done. OTL I died typing.

 

So here I am, I took Katie unni's baton, and now it's your turn.

 

So? What kind of friends to you take in as a true friend?

 

 

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JessKyu #1
The boyfriend one reminds me of someone...... U know? :b
gd_ume
#2
For me a friend is someone who you can be with you and accepts you at your worst and at your best... someone who knows when to shut up or be a if you need ing w/o being afraid to show you who you really are in your face but doing it w/ love and still acceps you w/ open arms.... someone who doesn't get jealous of your time away from him/her, who still acts the same even if you don't reply to his texts or you havent talked or seen for weeks... it's hard right hehehe... but i tell you, there are still friends like this....
GLloveOandSHINee
#3
Hiii i just finished reading your blog and i am in a big problem right now.In our class there are 7 girls and i have 2 best friends who hate each other.I am more close with only one of them i have posted even a blog about me and her since we 4 years since we have been best friends i will call her the A and my other bff B.So A and B's mother are bff since elementary school but A and B hate each other.B is some kind of jealous because A is really pretty and one of the most beatiful girls in our school so she always talks behind her back.B tells me swear you wont tell anyone about the thing i am gooing to say especially A and so i swear but the secret she tells me is things bad about A.A is better than B and nicer to me but B has good characterstics too.I dont really know what do because every one in our class hates A sice the other 4 girls in our class keep bad mouthing her including here B one of the 7 girls isnt really social type.So we are only 6 girls the other 3 are total es with a B capital but they are nice to me but to A total es and i dont know what to do.I want to chose A to stay with but B has many things in common with me and i am afraid she will tell everyone a few secrets i have told her.What should i do i dont know!!Help me please!
myrene
#4
hi!
well for me a friend is the one who will be with you through thick and thin.. accept you as you are and will never ever leave you ^^

friendship is a give and take relationship. you will give in order to receive and vice versa. ^^

hmm. in friendship there is love and in love there is pain. communicate with your friends. say the things that hurts you. and if they will find a way to compromise. that's what i do too. whenever i am hurt with the things they do. i talk to them.. in that way they can change it or lessen it. they say im a good listener,, they can say everything to me and i'll accept it no matter how bad it is! ^^

i really do love my friends eventhough there are some characteristics and traits that i dont want in them, i accept it. i accept that everybody's not perfect.

in life there are ups and downs. aside from God and family, friends are the ones who also keeps you going.. you can share everything to them without being judged. you can go emotional and cry when you're heartbroken. and say the things that you cant do and say to your family...

i never leave a friend but there are some people who i consider as friends yet they leave me coz of misconceptions about me.. and about boys.. T__T i always thinks that its their loss but it also hurts to be misunderstood by someone you thought that will accept and understand you against anybody T_T

anyways.. i love my friends just the way they are.. but if they have some bad characteristics, i dont hesitate to tell them. true friends tell you everything even if it hurts coz its for their own good too. my friends and i have diff personalities and likes. each of us are lack of something in that we complete each other. ^^

friendship is not a perfect relationship. sometimes you will have some arguments of your likes and dislikes but that's the things that makes you relationship keep going. ^^

HAHA well its too long.. ppyong. i hope you liked what i thought about friendship ^^
take care!