'Friendship'
First of all, greeting to some of my new friends out here!
So, I was going through my blog posts, and I saw a blog Katie unni posted about friends and which one I keep. I was going through it and thought it was really interesting. So here I am, here to see what kind of friends I want to keep. So umm, yeah, here are some random posts about how i keep my friends.
How people view on the word 'friendship' is different, some may think it's the most beautiful thing in the world, and some may think that keeping friends are useless. But what I personally think of friendship is that it's the most beautiful thing in the world that can cause you the greatest pain in your life.
Friendship is beautiful. How my friends talk with me, cry with me and laugh with me. Friends are just your second family. But honestly, I've been hurt a lot by friends too. Because you know that friends are just like your family, small things such as the feeling of being ignored can hurt a lot, because you love them so much, and because you feel useless. And as a girl, you all know that you can never forget the pain others have given to you. It's just like a wound, you can never forget, always deep inside your heart.
“A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.”
― Elbert Hubbard
But yes, although they give me such pain, they are my most treasured person in my life. I can never abandon them although they give me so much pain, because in the end, you know that if you lose them, you will be the one in loss, and would end up being hurt.
So I just keep silent, although hurting, just silence.
Being in the same school for the last 10 years, I have a lot of insane memories with my friends, and I appreciate it a lot. Just like how I remember one of my friend pooing in the class when I was grade 1, and now he's became so... tough. I mean who knew he would become like that?
Boys being so short before and now so tall that it feels like I'm talking to a giant. It . i MEAN I WAS THE ONE WHO USED TO TEASE THEM THAT THEY'RE SO SHORT AND NOW, THEY'RE FREAKING REVENGING ON ME THAT I'M THE SHORT ONE. ;A;
Anyways, back to the topic.
While being in this ground for 10 years, there were some es that just used me for their marks. Which . They used to backmouth me behind, and when the tests are about to start, they just appear out of nowhere and starts showing their oh-so-beautiful-smile infront of my face asking me to explain some things they don't understand. Oh please ugh.
So thinking about it, there are some characteristics of a person who I always tend to be friends with;
- Somebody that tend to always be with me when I'm having my emotional issues, although I know that I can be so annoying when I'm so emotional that I just talk crap. But still listens to me and gives me some sensible advices.
- A friend who I can joke with. I don't really be friends with a so serious person who takes jokes very seriously. I hate them. I mean, laugh can't you? Sheesh, I'm just joking out here.
- Somebody I know I can trust. I tent to tell secrets to my friends, so I need them to have HEAVY MOUTH. I don't want my secret to be all over the universe.
- A person with same interest. (I NEED SOMEONE TO SPANZ WITH OKAY? OTL)
People I can never bare;
- People who leaves me because of their boyfriend . (I mean you can go out with your boyfriend, but if you become too much smooch smooch. ewwww) I've been through this about 4 or 5 times, and believe me, I don't talk to them anymore. They were the one that abandoned me, so why would I care about them?
- People who think they're the best. (ewwww)
Okay I'm done. OTL I died typing.
So here I am, I took Katie unni's baton, and now it's your turn.
So? What kind of friends to you take in as a true friend?
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