Dating Emergency!

Sooo guys, first of all this is my very first blog that I´m writing (because I didn´t know how to write one so yeah....)....say YAY! :D

Anyway, I need your help:

There´s this one boy in my school that I kind of fell for and my friends said I should ask him out, but I didn´t had the courage to because he is a model (yeah that´s right he is a model) and I´m far away from being a model (I´m not that thin neither am i fat....something in the middle).

So a few weeks passed and we became something like friends (I have some classes with him) and talked to each other a lot more. And there was this one day where I burned my middle finger with hot oil and it happended that on the next day I had some classes with him and he saw my injury and asked what happened. I told him about it and he realized that I was still a little in pain because burning your finger with hot oil can hurt like a for the next few days of your life and so he came up to me, my left cheek, hugged me and said "I can feel your pain". And from this day on my BFF pushed me to ask him out. One week later I finally had the courage to ask him out and he said yes...now I should be happy right? Well, not really....I´m happy, but kind of insecure at the same time because he seems to be kind of distant, so I have a kind of feeling as if he doesn´t like me the way I like him....I already asked my bff for help and she said that if he didn´t want to go out with me then he defenitely would have said it in three ways: 1) No.

                        2) I don´t know (As in "I don´t want to") 

                        3) shrug his shoulders.

So guys that´s the whole story and now I need some advice from you....PLEASE! The more the better....

 

I´m already going to thank everybody who gives me advice! :D

 

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dazzlingdep
#1
LOL, for me, I think you should try to, you know, like ask him directly ( directly is my style )
like
"Do you like me?" and yeah, wait for the answer
And btw, who cares about model, don't care about the look, love is in the heart :) ♥
yMaruChan #2
*mistake on my comment*
-He wouldn't ask you to change-
yMaruChan #3
Don't let your insecurities ruin the moment for you two. Cherish what you have now and make the best of it. If you really feel that way, tell how you feel. Guys might like when girls tell them what's going on in their mind because it's a sign that the girl is willing to let their partner know what's going on.

Also, if he is really serious with you, you wouldnt ask you to change and will listen to you no matter what, but just don't be dramatic because i think guys dont like dramatic girls.

If you're curious on how he feels, ask him simple questions to understand him more or just get to the point such as "How do you feel towards me?" etc..

Share stories between each other such as interests or simple talking that makes you two comfortable and connected.
Take it slow and just make sure not to be so clingy because most guys don't like clingy girls. ( at least i think)

If you're curious, just ask him what makes him angry/hate or like.

Good luck in your relationship ^_^