Seriously, I really hate that people can't be more considerate of each other, especially given our mutual interests. This applies to the recent Onew controversies as well as many other issues I've seen lately. We don't have to agree with one another, or even like one another, but we can still be respectful, right? I just don't understand the alternative. 

This is what I said on Twitter, and I stand by it now:

Why don't more Shawols promote peace in our own fandom? We should be like our idols: kind, considerate, friendly, and gentle.

At any rate, I missed my AFF anniversary last week; it's changed a lot around here in the past year. I hope it gets better. Let's be kind to one another, ne? It's what our biases would want their fans to do -- and it's what they, themselves, would do also. They should be role-models for how we treat others. At least, this is what I believe. I think this is the best way to show our support for the ones we love so much: to replicate the morality they have so often displayed on a public level. They are seriously some of the kindest, warm-hearted people on the planet. 

Shawols should be more like SHINee.

Don't you think?

**for the record: Jinki's action didn't bother me in the slightest; in fact, I really kind of like it because it showed us how close Jongyu are, despite all the rumors that they don't get along. However, I do think he needs to be more careful not to get video-taped next time. lol. And as for his hat, I think it's just hateful backlash. I don't get why people have a problem with it NOW all of a sudden. Totally random. Anyway, this isn't just about that. It's about a lot of things.