My 'ex' best friend

Hi guys!~ I'm BJ_VIP_Shawol, and I'm writting this blog about how I lost my best friend without even knowing why...

*Before I start I wanna let you know that this best friend I'm talking about is a HE*
Ok, first I'd like to talk about this girl, that we're going to call CHRISTINA here. *This is not her real name and neither are the names I'm going to use for the others* She, ANNA, STELLA, and I were best friends. However I never liked CHRISTINA. I only spent time with her since I was really close to ANNA and I didn't wanted to loose her friendship. But in order to be in their cyrcle of friendship, I had to act all 'bestie bestie' with CHRISTINA even though I dissliked (still do) a lot. She's not a good person to me and allways found a way to embaress me, even though it was just for fun, like making jokes. But, come on, who can support being called names all day long? And not to even mention all the secrets she kept from me, ANNA and STELLA. Only I know all the s she has done, while the other two still haven't found out.

Now, you see, CHRISTINA became really close to my best friend that we're going to call JEFF. JEFF, being a naive boy, fell over her spell and replaiced her with me. By replaicing I mean I was no longer his no.1 best friend. And for this I blame him. We had been friends for 6 years. 6 ING YEARS and he goes and replaces me with someone he had just met. Da Fuq???

However, me, being an understandable person, didn't make a big deal out of it. Instead I kept being friends and all. But since then I had noticed a VERY big change on his attitude. He suddenly, started calling me names, telling me I'm ugly (Like that is something that would change the things between us =.=), and ignoring me with no reason.

I honestly became thinking on what I had done to him, but nothing came out. I've never been nothing but nice and helpful to him. Now what the does he want from me?

The situation became worst when I started crying in the middle of the class. And I could clearly hear him in the background saying he didn't care and that I was doing it on perpous so ppl would feel bad about me. In the maintime his friendship with CHRISTINA grew deeper and they started calling each-other brother and sister.

One day I heard that STELLA had been into a fight with ANNA and CHRISTINA. So, I went to ask her and she told me she couldn't support CHRISTINAS adittute anymore. I asked why and she said CHRISTINA had changed and blah blah blah. But they still got back together and they still are best friends now. Not that I mind though, but I'd really wish they'd leave me alone and stop asking me why I had left them, couse I know that even if I'd tell them, they'd never understand. However the only person that I keep on talking with is ANNA.

As for JEFF, he's mad at me at the moment for a partifcular reason I don't know. And each time I'd ask him he'd just ignore me and tell me he hates me.

The point of this blog is becouse I really want you guys, maybe, guess and give me ideas of why he's acting like this.

Well this was the story of how I lost my best friend. Sorry if I waised your time, but I really needed to let this out

Thank for reading and leave a comment what you thing below ↘

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AlecsMate #1 Jun 7, 2013 08:54:46

uhhh miss we need to talk kk?????can i kill this jeff boy. tell me the name and i will. o srz pse sm the m para. nese esht jugi mbaj vec nj gj n mendje AI ESHT TRAPPPPP

SHAWOLBANA21 #2 Mar 24, 2013 01:52:20

i guess tht Christina **____** said some bad stuff abt u orr used maybe black magic?? LOLOLOLOL ahh
u will get ur bestie bakk if he is truly ur BFF!! <3<3 ehheheehhe

FIGHTING DONGSANGGIEE!! <3 SARANGHAE!!! <3

Smile_Dork #3 Mar 22, 2013 13:52:40

Maybe Christina did something? Girls like her are always sneaky doing something. Trust me, I use to had a friend like her. I hope you are okay though.Fighting!!!

Seana21 #4 Mar 20, 2013 21:32:06

i can said that christina is talk bad about u with jeff ,but do u ever think why that christina hate u so much that she trying to steal every thing away from u ? i know how it feel like losing a bestfriend it was bad really bad ,carefull chingu this b*tch is a real b*tchies she trying to steal yr everting .i dont know if i was overreacting but i was i yr circumstances b4 so i just gave u my advice ^^

shining_writer #5 Mar 20, 2013 16:25:52

My name's Christina too. For some time I thought you were talking about me, but I don't know any guy, so that's not me XD.

(And I used to call myself Stella. This is awkward.)

Perhaps he didn't really like being with you in the first place, or Christina told him bad things about you. It's most probably the latter.

tillynilly #6 Mar 20, 2013 15:08:54

have you tried telling your group of friends that you dont really like the teasing and name-calling? have you told them that it's mean?
im not the best at giving advice so dont take me too seriously, okay? since you wanted my thoughts, thats all im going to give.
can you think of anything that youve done that might have made jeff mad? what about christina? if i were you id stop asking him if he refuses to answer you. give each other some space. maybe you could talk with anna or stella about your opinion, since stella has already noticed christinas behavior as well.

i really dont know what else to say so yeah. losing a best friend is sad, i know. but think about what you value in a best friend - is one who calls you ugly and ignores you what you really want? is it what you really need?

so it looks like i gave you more questions to think about rather than answers. sorry. hopefully you will be able to solve this problem out soon. hwaiting.