Help me with my gay younger Brother!!(Very Important and Please read this to help me)

Hello everyone,I'm in not a good mood because tonight because my house was like a hell.My appa sick because of my younger brother attitude.My omma has died from accident.

I was locked myself in my room because I was think about my family's condition.Now,I'm really hate my younger so much.His face look so much like Dongjun of ze;a.

So,maybe that why all the people like him even the guy.I want to share one story,one day when I was walking with my friend.I saw him with his friend,a guy.Kissing my younger cheek in public make me very angry.I went to there and drag him to come home but he doesn't want to listen.He said to me

"That up to me to do everything I want."

I got very angry and slapped him infront my friend.They was very shocked but I doesn't very care because he has made me very shy infront my friend for getting know that my younger brother is gay.His name is Kim Donghyun.We were korean.

I told my appa and he was rampage .He wait for my younger brother back home that night.My appa hit him with a rattan when he back home but he shout back to my appa.Now,my appa locked him in the room,told him to change but he doesn't want.He said he love his friend.

I want my brother back to normal and doesn't be a gay.Now,he become more rude,and my appa become sick because think about him.What should I do?I doesn't have anyone to ask a opnion so that why I ask you guy.Please help me to change him.I pity my appa.

And that why I learn English language because I want to find many friend.I hope you guys can help me.It's very important to me.

Anyone who read this...Please give me a suggestion...^^..Help me!!

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Shinee-locket95 #1 Mar 30, 2013 22:07:25

Hmm. I think that you should try to accept your brother. You cant just try to turn him back to 'normal' because he already is. Hes still the same but he just like guys and not girls. I respect him for standing up for himself. I dont think your father was right to lock your brother in his room just because he liked a guy. Dont listen to the people who say set him on a date with a girl because that will just anger him. I know that its hard for you but try to be suppportive of your brother, if you will. Your brother lives in a homophobic place and he must be going through hell for coming out. Its hard for him to probally come home to a home where his family members dont approve of him and then go to school where he probally gets picked on, not sure if he does but still. Just see your self in your shoes and see what its like. Its not easy and he just wants people to accept him for who he is. Tell him I said good luck.
*hoped this helped*

chuzzz #2 Mar 15, 2013 18:56:35

For him, let him do what he wants, its his life and choices. What ever choice he makes, I honestly think you should all respect it. His your brother and not getting that support from his family is heartbreaking. You as an older sister should have the responsibility to watch out for your younger sibling and respect his choices. Who cares if he's gay. I think your younger brother is doing what he thinks is right and you know what? I respect him because he stands up for what he believes in. He doesn't hide it and is proud to show the world in what he believes in. That is a brilliant person, a person worth looking up too. Though I do think he shouldn't be shouting at his father.

destroyednature #3 Mar 11, 2013 07:08:30

My suggestion is~ Here...
If your brother is 19 above~
Arrange blind date for him secretly.Don't tell him about it.He will refuse to come to the blind date =w=
*before arrange the blind date...ask him about his ideal type~well if he didn''t want to tell you~Just find a suitable girl for him.
if he do~you find a girl same with his idea type

*hope this will help*

angelily95 #4 Mar 11, 2013 07:04:06

How old is he?

deibaby03 #5 Mar 11, 2013 06:39:28

ahhhh... just accept him no matter what..
I dunno but, if i was you, I'll accept him.. no matter what happens, you're still siblings and sharing the same blood :)

missDasha #6 Mar 11, 2013 02:56:29

Ooooh, it's just awful. =( I don't know how to help you in this situation. But I'll think about it.

honeytop #7 Mar 10, 2013 09:55:25

wow this quiet hard concern..erm,, i just want to know how old is your younger brother? if he young about 19 below, try to find him a girlfriend and try talk to him about girl nicely. kids don't like if they got beat or scold,, it will make them feel down more. maybe you should try take him to counsellor since this thing is huge problem, he became rude and all... i just give my idea~~
hope you strong while through this things

ika_cute #8 Mar 10, 2013 09:41:13

please be patience with your younger brother..I will always support you..

HyeMi10_98 #9 Mar 10, 2013 09:32:19

wow....i read it...how old are u and ur younger brother??