My first encounter with hallyu world by watched Jang Dong Gun on All About Eve (and until now he still my number one hallyu star for me) and Bae Yong Jun on Hotelier (not like everybody else that prefere Winter Sonata, I preferred Hotelier).

After the two of them, I also like to watch Won Bin, Lee Byung Hyun, for actress I like Song Yun Ah, Go So Yung, Chae Rim. But I’m a woman so I like the actor more than the actresses.

When I watched Korean version of Hana Yori Dango, truthfully I don’t like it. The actors act so awkward. The story itself seems little bit different with Japanese version. But then, when I tried to watch (because of my curiousity) I found one of the actors had improved his acting during the series. He’s Kim Hyun Joong.

From him I learn about SS501 and K-POP. From him I learn about his best friend, Kim Jaejoong. Then I learn about JYJ and from them I learn about DBSK. So, it’s backward for me to finally know about DBSK.

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When I read about the law suit, about the frictions that happen between the members, and finally about the fan war, I really cannot understand (I wrote about this once but I think I want to write down again).

The lawsuit, the split, do the fans really understand what their reason? The truth reasons?  I don’t think so. But why they (the fans) get into some terrible fan war? Bashing each other star?

Once, I read someone claimed that he’s or she’s are closed with the SME, all of them, the artist, the staff, and he claimed that JYJ is a liar, that Jaejoong is an evil behind his angelic appearance, that Jaejoong already sold his friends and his soul for money. She/He said that Jaejoong inside is very ugly.

When I read that, I just can be like this 0_0

In other time, I read some fans claimed that in the first she/he was JYJ fans then he/she grow up and learn to analyze things and become JYJ haters.

I, again, can only like this 0_0

Why can it be like this?

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Me, myself, never be Cassies, not TripleS either, not HoMIn or JYJ stan. I don’t say that became someone/some band stan is wrong, what I cannot accept is the haters.

Why can’t HoMin stan not became JYJ haters?

Why can’t JYJ/Jaejoong stans not became HoMin haters?

If you choose to become HoMIn stan, just support them with all your heart without thinking bad and having hatred heart to JYJ.

If you choose to become JYJ stan, just support them too, with all your heart.

If you choose to become Jaejoong stan, no need to hate Yunho or YunJae stan.

Around TripleS, I know that a lot of them unsatisfied with leader KHJ attitude. They thought that KHJ is selfish and greedy and became the reason for their separation (not disbanding).

Why can’t we, the fans just act as a fan?

What fans should do?

Support them, with buying they’re album, listening to their songs, watching their concerts, their projects, buying their merchandise, pray for their successful. Am I right?

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I also feel sorry for Jaejoong. Composing songs is not easy. But why a lot of people, fans or haters cannot appreciate that? Everytime Jaejoong release his song, his fans and YunJae shipper (I know not all of them of course) always say that Jaejoong especially made the song for Yunho, not for a girl. The funniest things is that HoMin stan that Jaejoong haters also listen to the song and said that Jaejoong still can get over Yunho and still live in the past, not move on, meanwhile Yunho already doesn’t want to have anything to do with Jaejoong anymore since the split.

Why can’t we just appreciate his work? Just give a critics or praise to the music or lyrics? Just enjoy the music if you like that and leave it if you don’t like it. Just make our live simple, because we have other more important things to do in our live than to bashing each other and make fun with other’s effort.

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DBSK problem, I believe that only little people that really really know and understand the reasons. DBSK themselves, management, their parents, and lawyer are the people that exactly had to understand the problem. Even the staff or other artists in the same office, I doubtful that they really know the reasons.

Some people say that JYJ became greedy and HoMin is coward. Greedy maybe. A lot of people in the world became greedy. With some reasons and excuses. Coward? I don’t think we can called their acts as a coward acts, because they choose their path with their own reasons, with the background that we, the fans, can’t understand fully.

I preferred to think that DBSK and JYJ having different vision in their mind. And that is the normal things happen to adults people, adults world.

Why can’t we respect that?

As I say, maybe some fans unsatisfied, thinking that JYJ betray the other two and so greedy until didn’t count their brother’s feeling. Or maybe some fans asking why DBSK being a cowards, didn’t coming with the other three? Why the two can’t feel the same pain with JYJ about the contract matters?

Please, just like I said before, why can’t WE just become better FANS for them? The problem between them, the lawsuit, etc.etc. not our business, and never be our business..

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I really don’t like when I read JYJ articles and there HoMin or DBSK OT5 bashing and say bad word about them. Vice versa. I don’t like when I read bashful and hatred comment on DBSK HoMin articles.

I wrote down before, that one fans said that she/he grow up and from JYJ fans become JYJ haters?

Grown up people don’t become haters. If she/he thinks that they can’t accept JYJ attitude or choose of path, just leave them behind and choose to become HoMin stan, not neccesarry to hates JYJ, because once again, we never knew what the truth behind their problem, and their problem will never become our business.

That’s come as well for the TripleS that start to hate and disappoint with leader KHJ. We never knew why the five had to separate like that. Some said that DSP want to cut Kyu Jong contract, so the other became solidarity brothers, decided to going out as well. Some said that KHJ is greedy and have a better nominal contract from his new management. We never knew the truth reason.

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I like DBSK, JYJ, SS501, etc..etc… I love YunJae pairing, HyunSaeng pairing, MinFood pairing (?) kekeke…

And I just want to become a good fan for them.. Enjoy their music, their project…with all my heart..

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This is just my thoughts… Can be different with all of you off course…I’ll always respect the differences, because each people is different and have some unique feature for themselves… So, it’s okay for being different…but not necessary to become hate with each others, right?

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I write this while listening to Hirai Ken’s songs…He’s beautiful voice makes my heart and feel melted, so calm…

DBSK Fighting! JYJ Fighting! SS501 Fighting! Hirai Ken Fighting!!!

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