Relationship Problems. [Please Read?]

So...i have a relationship problem with this dude. He is older than me by 3 years. Because i graduated from Elemetary School, i went to high school right? And i found out that this dude was also from the same Elementary school as me. 

BUT

my friend intorduced him to me. She said that he was my senior. So yeah, that senior dude gave me his number. He said if i needed help i could just text him. I texted him that day to ask about what the school programmes are like  because he was in that school for 4 years. I obviously wanted to know more. I met him on the 26th of January 2013. 

Then, one fine day, my CCA coach told me that my school was haunted. I got goosebumps. So i immediately texted that senior wether he knew that the school was haunted. And he said yes. AND THEN, i repiled him with, "TAKE CARE OF MEEEE" 

And, he answered, "I will. ;) I am your protector." 

So i said, "Thank You." 

And he added on, "Who bully you also tell me."

I said "OKAY" 

So this "cosplaying" thing went on for a few days. I think it started last Thursday...... ANYHOW, yesterday night, i asked him what was his favourite KPOP group. 

AND THIS HAPPENED. 

"i like B.A.P and AFTER SCHOOL"

"Ohh. haha. I like EXO and Juniel. Who are your bias?"

"Zelo and Nana." 

"Nana?!?! She was a model. SUPER TALL. hahaha"

"180 cm. :)"

"you very pro. Know your idol so well."

"of course!" 

"I am better! I stalk my idols. MUAHAHAHAH"

"never stalk me. :("

"You not my bias."

"Then i am your who?"

"Protector and Senior."

"Only that?"

"Yup. "

"Ok." 

"But you can make me change my mind about you. :)"

"Does that mean we have a chance??"

"Not exactly. I don't want a boyfriend until i turn 21. But we can be best friends."

"ok then."

"So...what do you want? Friends or what?"

"Anything. Up to you."

"ok. Friends."

"ok."
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Another Scene. Last Friday. 

"My tuition ended. YAY!"

"Finally."

"hahaha. What are you doing now?" 

"thinking about you. :)" 

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So what should i do? I AM IN A HUGE MESS!!!! Both of my friends also got this type of messages too. People say that he is a pedobear. 0_0. My friend calls him a despo.(short for desparate.) 

I only treat him as a senior. But i don't know why he doesn't treat me as a dongseang. I could tell he gave me many clues that he liked me though. I really don't want our relationship to be more than a senior-junior one. 

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END OF RANTING. Leave a comment below on what i should do. Feeling ____ up. T.T

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bunnyyezzir #1
just tell him that you're not in any way interested in him. im sure he'll understand since ur younger. tell him u want nothing more than just friends. those are your true feelings after all, aight?
EdPotter #2
you said your friends got this type of messages too... doesn't that means he tries to fool you around...?? there's a time when i lose my purse at a restaurant and a guy who's 4 yrs older than me found it. coincidentally i put my friend's number in the purse so he called my friend to get my number and end up texting with both of us. i acted very cold while my friend was so 'girly'.. a week after that, he sent me a love poem (a LONGGGG one) and the next day in school, i told my friend about it and she said she got it too lolz!
well my advice is... if you don't want your relationship to be ruined, just continue act like you didn't get what he's trying to say to you~
BloodyIndigo #3
It's OK if you don't want that kind relationship with him. Can I ask how well you or your friends know him? If you know him quite well, then maybe he just has a crush on you and probably won't do anything pedo-y. But if you don't know him that well then just be careful and don't let him make you do anything. You said you don't want a bf until you're 21, if you want to wait, then wait. Hope this helped! I've never been in a situation like this, so I might not be giving the best advice. :) good luck!
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