...@.@ *speechless*

Look what comment I received on my other blogpost, 'Lonely, Mrs. Lonely~~' from an unknown person:

 

sevenwishes  on 12-19-2012 04:08:49 says: x
Hey just skimmed, well really I just read the title, and i have to tell you that : Mrs. is for married women, Ms. is for when you're not sure if a woman is married or not, and Mss. is for single women. So apparently you're husband Mr.lonley is not verry attentive. You deserve better from him!
Ps. I love this site but, I'v noticed that it isn't facebook (the colors are all wrong)and ask you for alot of compliments, though you don't directly state "Compliment me!", it's implied. Even though you appear to be self-conscious, the poses that you make in your pictures lead me to believe otherwise; and in fact imply the opposite.
Pps. Let me redirect you to Facebook, they will accomodate your need for social acceptance. If you get lost, here is the link: https://www.facebook.com/

Don't take this to hard, I'm sure Mr.Lonley loves you just the way you are. 

Sincerely,
Seven Wishes 
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...*speechless* I don't even know how I should respond to this! I'm...out of words! But sure, I can think of something to say to this stranger here >.> First of all, English may not be my first language and I might be a total grammar disaster, but I do know that 'Mrs.' is for married women(just for the record, the title was taken from Akon's 'Lonely', changing just the gender!). Secondly, I posted some pictures that I liked about the winter that took over my country. And I know that many of my friends live in countries where it never snows and I thought about showing them how's the snow here and the freezing cold outside (the tree branches are all white...). Thirdly, it's not Facebook and I know it. I do have a Facebook account and I spent a lot of time there, posting other things that AFF friends might never see... 

But, leaving apart my arguments to this comment, I just wonder why on Earth this person commented on my blog post just to hurt my feelings? Alright, I get that she/he doesn't like the fact that I posted picture, thinking that I'm begging for compliments, but why bother comment on it?! I don't get it! @.@

Social acceptance? Should I mention that thanks to my friends here I can smile when I look in the mirror? That thanks to them I managed to surpass really awful times from my life? But once again, I don't think she/he know who I am and what I did that for...

I'm sad though. I don't remember being insulted by anyone ever since I came on AFF TT.TT I feel hurt...But it's alright! I get through this since I know that not everybody likes me and not everybody will enjoy what I post. And if you guys, my precious friends and fireflies, agree with this person above and do not wish for me to post pictures here, then I'll stop. I don't want to hurt anyone or to make anyone judge me based on some pictures... So, yeah...

This was a shock for me, I guess...

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DarkShadow #1
....just say what u just said... I think u states everything clearly
N second... Girls like that just need to b ignored seriously coz they have nothing better to do other than pic up other ppls faults
I.dont think ur doping anything wrong if she does so then be it
No person got ant right to say anything about someone else as long as it has nothing to do with them
Am i clear?
KimAgasshi2012 #2
don't worry girl some people are just jealous^_^don't ming him /her...honestly you're one of the best writer in my country that writes lovely asian fan fics...i read some on Facebook but they're not as good as yours....so keep up with what you do
nadwifeygd #3
Don't take serious on what this weird person said .
Maybe she/he just want some attention , but seriously this kind of behaviour is totally annoying =="
E_magine #4
Did they try to use sarcasm or wit in the beginning of their comment? Man that isn't funny .___.

Blogs are where people are personal, it's safer imo to post things on here than facebook because on facebook people probably know who you are whereas on here we hide behind a username but the trust we develop with each other becomes real.

Now that it's out in the open I hope sevenwishes apologizes. Whether they're right or not it's no excuse for being rude and from what it sounds like that's exactly what they've done. When you're ready forgive them and move on because it's better for you :) *Hug*
Feiruru #5
So, posting up our picture on blog is the same as seeking for attention? Ha-ha. Funny.

That person was just being a totally random...potato! Yeah, a creepy potato! OTL.

All you gotta do is just laugh at him.
Cheers unnie Kat! :)
B_ann1 #6
that's one random comment O.o
don't take it to heart, that person is weird... what's that talk about fb all about? XD
it actually made me laugh...
YuxieWuxie #7
I think you're being over-dramatic right now... That person was just expressing their opinion, in a kinda rude and ironic way but they didn't insult you at all. To be honest, I find the the "compliment me!" part pretty accurate. It may not be your intention but it really looks this way from a stranger's point of view. Posting a blog saying "omg I feel so ugly" and then posting pictures of yourself, is called seeking attention... I mean come on, ofc people are going to say you're pretty and if you really thought you were ugly, you wouldn't post the photos. As long as you posted them, it means you like them so you don't necessarily think you're ugly or dislike yourself that much.

You're relying on people from over the internet way too much(ofc they're your friends and stuff but they can easily be dishonest). Right now, by this blog post too. You're basically asking them to say: That person's not right, isn't it?! And ofc your friends are going to say: NO! Even though it might not be what they really think; and people who think otherwise will just not comment, trying to not make you feel bad.

Now, I'm not trying to make you feel bad by this, but I need to let you know the truth, since nobody else will. That person is somehow right, leaving aside their ironic and kinda rude way of putting it.

You shouldn't react badly people's criticism, moreover if it's constructive, in fact if you make your blog posts public, expect strangers to read them and criticize you or express their opinion even if that might not be pleasant to read. I hope you don't take this as a hateful comment, but as a constructive one and if you find it rude in any way, I'm sorry. It really wasn't my intention. I'm just being honest. :D
watermelon #8
I'm amused at his/her childish behaviour- creating a new account, returning to your post and bashing you.
Don't let the comment affect you, darling. (:
I find your pictures perfectly fine and pretty. Moreover, I look up to you who don't fear to post your pictures so proudly. <3
No worries. The only problem here is just that insane, appalling person who seem to think he/she is better off.
daydreamergirl11 #9
Wow I can't believe someone would be so rude as to post this. If they thought such things why read it at all and then comment? Maybe this person is a not lonely themselves and saw the responses you received and felt a not sad so they posted this. As for your response to it well honestly you don't have to respond to this person. If you feel the need to because it would make you feel weird not to just say something like thank you for your opinion. I know I enjoy reading your posts and seeing what is on your mind. AFF isn't just a place to be creative a place where you make friends. Last time I checked friends like to know a little about each other not just have things in common. Sorry didn't mean to go on. I just want you to realize that I appreciate how you allow us a glimpse into your life.!
MoonSungRa #10
This so funny! xD I know this kind of people. Who think that they know everything! ^^ Seriously, this person is stupid... You can post all what you want here! I can't understand why it bothers him/her that you posted some pictures! T_T Don't feel sad..! :D
Sammery #11
Ignore them - they clearly don't understand what a 'blog' is.
xinli_ang #12
That person just lacks attention, I guess. No, you don't need to! :) I like your posts the way they are. :) Don't let that stranger tell you what to do! And it seems to me that that person needs to listen to his/her English teacher better. There's no such thing as a Mss. >.>

Take care! <3 Don't let those meanies hurt you!
LovesAsianDrama #13
I SAY DON'T EVEN PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT HE/SHE SAYS. Why are they even commenting on your post in the first place?? I HATE SIMPLE A$$ PEOPLE. We here Love You & your post
nazarena955 #14
I don't agree with her/him at all! You post your pictures girl! We love you and love your blogs !!:)<33
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